Driving speed child seatbelt violation $430 ??
On Sat, 22 Nov 2003 18:37:38 -0600, toto <[email protected]>
wrote:
Well Dorothy, or toto, or whoever you are, please do not take
something I write and twist it to serve your misguided views of
parenting.
I don't believe in spanking. However, I occasionally do. When I do I
always ask my son if it hurt his butt. He always says no. I then ask
him if it hurt his feelings. He always says yes. I always hug him
afterwards. I never swat him more than once. I never hit him hard.
Hell if he admits it doesn't hurt, that pretty much says it all.
Further, the reason my son listens is BECAUSE I DON"T HAVE HARD AND
FAST RULES. There are some things that can not be negotiated though.
Liberals like you, and don't bother telling anyone you are not a
liberal, refuse to discipline your children and then get upset when we
want to put criminals behind bars because "it was their parent's
fault".
If my kid runs in the street, I explain why he can't. I then tell him
why I will spank him if he does it again. I then give him a few
chances to make mistakes. I do not allow him the opportunity to make
those mistakes when he can get killed.
Any parent who allows their child to take off a seat belt without
permission is an idiot.
On Sat, 22 Nov 2003 18:37:38 -0600, toto <[email protected]>
wrote:
On Sat, 22 Nov 2003 22:59:03 GMT, DTJ <[email protected]> wrote:
If you get in an accident and the child needs to get out of the carfast, I hope he doesn't wait for you to tell him its ok especially ifyou have been knocked unconscious.The problem with hard and fast rules and obedience is that thechild doesn't learn how to judge when things are ok to do. Andthe problem with punishment, especially harsh punishments isthat you will be teaching unintended lessons you don't want toteach.
Not the point. A 5 year old should not be allowed to take off a seatbelt. My 3 year old can, but knows he will be severely punished if hedoes. He must ask first, and must wait for a response.
something I write and twist it to serve your misguided views of
parenting.
I don't believe in spanking. However, I occasionally do. When I do I
always ask my son if it hurt his butt. He always says no. I then ask
him if it hurt his feelings. He always says yes. I always hug him
afterwards. I never swat him more than once. I never hit him hard.
Hell if he admits it doesn't hurt, that pretty much says it all.
Further, the reason my son listens is BECAUSE I DON"T HAVE HARD AND
FAST RULES. There are some things that can not be negotiated though.
Liberals like you, and don't bother telling anyone you are not a
liberal, refuse to discipline your children and then get upset when we
want to put criminals behind bars because "it was their parent's
fault".
If my kid runs in the street, I explain why he can't. I then tell him
why I will spank him if he does it again. I then give him a few
chances to make mistakes. I do not allow him the opportunity to make
those mistakes when he can get killed.
Any parent who allows their child to take off a seat belt without
permission is an idiot.
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