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  • xena
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    Originally posted by specialasia View Post
    I did not see him rejecting to this , I will travel for feb my lease will be up and our new place will be ready. I am thinking to call out of work tommorow and go to the courts and ask them to relocate my child if I am told no when my lease is up feb 1st, will I then lose her because we will have no place to stay.
    If he has not served you by morning, you should take a day off and go to the courthouse to look in your court file to see what papers he has filed.
    IF it turns out that he hasn't actually filed yet, you should file a motion yourself, requesting the court's permission to move your child away.

    By your post, it seems that you believe that this can all be done in 1 day, it cannot. It will takke anywhere from a few weeks to a few months depending on how busy your court is.

    In your motion and in court you'll have to be able to prove to the court that moving your daughter 800 miles away from her father is in her best interests. That is extremely hard to do in a situation like yours where the father is exercising his rights and being a part of his child's life.

    Although the schools might be better where you want to move to, that is NOT going to be a valid reason in the court's eyes. There is help available in all schools and a Judge will almost certianly tell you that your daughter can recieve as much help here near her father than she can elsewhere way away from her father.

    Although you are willing to help with transportation, the reality is that with a distance of over 800 miles an EOW schedule is going to be very difficult to maintain, for both you and ex.

    You really should get a consult with a local attorney before attempting to file and especially if he has already filed.

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  • Dogmatique
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    Originally posted by specialasia View Post
    that is a valid point; however, if education is an issue please do not respond I need help in the situation, not be be down graded... Thank you
    You have been advised of your situation.

    I'm not entirely sure how else we can help you?

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  • GotSmart
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    Nobody is downgrading you.

    Albert Einstein had dyslexia.

    Good luck. I have said all I can here.

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  • specialasia
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    that is a valid point; however, if education is an issue please do not respond I need help in the situation, not be be down graded... Thank you

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  • GotSmart
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    Originally posted by specialasia View Post
    NO I am highly confused and upset excuse my mispelling. English is my first language, pissed off makes it something diifferent.. if all you have to offer is accusations please no longer respond... Thank you kindly
    I have been studying communications at the University level for many years. have you ever been tested for dyslexia? It sometimes kicks in when under stress. I have it, and can recognize the signs.

    Nobody is accusing or attacking you. You have been quite reasonable in your posts. We just would like to give you the best advice we can under the circumstances. The best advice is to calmly outline your reasoning as to why you would like to move, and take it to a lawyer.

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  • Dogmatique
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    Originally posted by specialasia View Post
    NO I am highly confused and upset excuse my mispelling. English is my first language, pissed off makes it something diifferent.. if all you have to offer is accusations please no longer respond... Thank you kindly

    Please don't get pissy with the people who are trying to help you.

    By all means, feel free to seek the services of an attorney.

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  • specialasia
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    NO I am highly confused and upset excuse my mispelling. English is my first language, pissed off makes it something diifferent.. if all you have to offer is accusations please no longer respond... Thank you kindly

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  • Dogmatique
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    Originally posted by GotSmart View Post
    If you are a teacher, how come your spelling is so poor?

    Sometimes a child is not able to learn. I work with adults that have never progressed passed getting dressed. All you can do is love them, and not give them pressure.

    VERY valid points!

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  • GotSmart
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    If you are a teacher, how come your spelling is so poor?

    Sometimes a child is not able to learn. I work with adults that have never progressed passed getting dressed. All you can do is love them, and not give them pressure.

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  • Dogmatique
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    Originally posted by specialasia View Post
    I have had mettings with the schools tto place a team to help her I have been to the superatndents office with meetings I have arranged, because of a format "that will help her" which has not I have exshalted everything in my power and still nothign .. I have worked in the school system for the past five years in speacil education with this I know all children rights in the state of CT. I have been giving promise and they have not followed through. My child deserves more and must receive it by any means. I am not a head teacher but Im a certifeid Praprofessional taking classes to be a head teacher. I know a child should not be denied the oppurtonity to advace, learn, or suceed.
    I can only assume that English is your second language. Correct?

    Regardless, when you are served, you need to respond to Dad's objection.

    Can you honestly say that the ONLY remedy for your child is a school 800 miles away from her father?

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  • specialasia
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    I have known since dec when I told him, he told my I should have giving him a years notice.

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  • specialasia
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    I have had mettings with the schools tto place a team to help her I have been to the superatndents office with meetings I have arranged, because of a format "that will help her" which has not I have exshalted everything in my power and still nothign .. I have worked in the school system for the past five years in speacil education with this I know all children rights in the state of CT. I have been giving promise and they have not followed through. My child deserves more and must receive it by any means. I am not a head teacher but Im a certifeid Praprofessional taking classes to be a head teacher. I know a child should not be denied the oppurtonity to advace, learn, or suceed.
    Last edited by specialasia; 01-18-2010, 06:18 PM.

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  • Dogmatique
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    Originally posted by specialasia View Post
    I did not see him rejecting to this , I will travel for feb my lease will be up and our new place will be ready. I am thinking to call out of work tommorow and go to the courts and ask them to relocate my child if I am told no when my lease is up feb 1st, will I then lose her because we will have no place to stay.

    Mom, you can't just walk into court and ask them to rule on a relocation issue. And if you take the child out of state without permission, you DO stand a chance of actually losing custody.

    You also must face the possibility of leaving your daughter with Dad, and getting used to visit her.

    How long have you known about the move?

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  • Dogmatique
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    Originally posted by specialasia View Post
    clearly I have srewed up by not knowing the law on this matter. Is there something I can file or say anything to ask or be granted approvale. The educational system will help my child there she is in the 5th grade and has been on a 2nd grade reading level for the past 3 years it is not getting better.. he does not care about that I most definatly do which must account for something.

    You're not going to like this but...

    If she has been primarily in your custody, and she is as behind as you say she is, a judge WILL wonder what YOU have done about the situation.

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  • specialasia
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    clearly I have srewed up by not knowing the law on this matter. Is there something I can file or say anything to ask or be granted approvale. The educational system will help my child there she is in the 5th grade and has been on a 2nd grade reading level for the past 3 years it is not getting better.. he does not care about that I most definatly do which must account for something.
    Last edited by specialasia; 01-18-2010, 06:04 PM.

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