OK, I have asked a lot about right of first refusal, and I guess my pretty little brain just can't grasp what I am assuimg is probably a simple concept, so PLEASE HELP!
Hypothetical example:
Say we have ROFR in our agreement, and it says that the other parent must be notified if I cannot be with the child for 6 hours.
Does this now mean that my son can no longer go on little overnight trips to see my MIL? She's not his biological grandmother, but she has certainly taken on the roll of grandmother. Once a month or so, she'll take him for an overnight. She'll take him to the movies, do crafts with him, bake cookies, all that grandmotherly stuff I hope to do one day so my boys and their wives can get a little alone time. Would I have to stop that, or would it be allowed since it is status quo? Would that have to be written specifically in the order that he is allowed one night per month during my time to stay with his "step-grandmother?"
Also, if I wanted it writted that HE cannot have non-related overnight guests, does that mean if friends come to visit ME, then they have to stay at a hotel? Or if, for example, I were to go to my parent's lake house. My brother is there with his girlfriend, and we're all staying overnight. Am I breaking the arrangement?
We are nowhere near an agreement. I am just trying to clarify my understanding of these things.
Hypothetical example:
Say we have ROFR in our agreement, and it says that the other parent must be notified if I cannot be with the child for 6 hours.
Does this now mean that my son can no longer go on little overnight trips to see my MIL? She's not his biological grandmother, but she has certainly taken on the roll of grandmother. Once a month or so, she'll take him for an overnight. She'll take him to the movies, do crafts with him, bake cookies, all that grandmotherly stuff I hope to do one day so my boys and their wives can get a little alone time. Would I have to stop that, or would it be allowed since it is status quo? Would that have to be written specifically in the order that he is allowed one night per month during my time to stay with his "step-grandmother?"
Also, if I wanted it writted that HE cannot have non-related overnight guests, does that mean if friends come to visit ME, then they have to stay at a hotel? Or if, for example, I were to go to my parent's lake house. My brother is there with his girlfriend, and we're all staying overnight. Am I breaking the arrangement?
We are nowhere near an agreement. I am just trying to clarify my understanding of these things.
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