REUNION SPARKS ANGER

[ianf2]

My grandparents on my adads side wanted my adoption, but when he was abusive
they ignored it, when I was disowned they ignored me, (I never did feel like
one of them) amom n her family were nice tho,
maybe grandparents should be involved,, but what boundaries? (incidenty my
bmom says her parents disowned her fer getting pregnant,,,in77???? )
I think grandparents, show proof of their stupidity when the child they
raised, won't listen or makes these bad decisions, but I do believe a minor
should listen to adults, hmmm a stiky wiket,,,,
here I digress, I am prochioce, if it comes outtaya you get the final say,
( unless severe mental retardation, only then should anyone tell a human
what to do, in re: to pregnancy, (IMHO))

This was a good question!! wow,
(oh this argument about coming out of ya,,,also answers the elusive I am a
guy, my sperm, made that its half mine, I want my half, to,,,,,,,,,,,) (once
born than I consider it a human and subject to parentage, but till then if
its in ya, its yers, not to say that the sperm donor gets off free, he
should pay at least half medical bills, food, care, treatments,
classes,,,(at least half no matter what!)
(and no, he can not opt out by pushing a woman into a abortion, that is left
to her discretion ,its in her not him,)
(Ya my version the guy and grandparents have no control when in the womb,
but, I think this is fair)
and I think that this whole thing could be confused with the what if the
grandparents, adopt the kid,,,,,(IEH!!! my head!!is now leaking!!)

(The world according to me)
(why does grandparent custody come up but not the bdad did I miss
something?)


"Jackie" <jdajda@newsguy.com> wrote in message
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On 22 Jun 2003 15:26:58 GMT, adoptadad@aol.com (AdoptaDad) wrote:

would

grant custody to the baby's grandparents? They could relinquish the

child for

adoption over the objections of the pregnant minor (the mother of the

child).

Is this what you had in mind? A parent of a minor can stop that child from doing many things. That is what parenting is all about. They are the adults.. So if they think it best that the minor's baby is kept.. I would rather err in the side of caution.. This baby is a member of their family.. This baby is important.. This baby should not be dropped of like a sack of potatoes..

was a

minor, no matter how drugged up she was. Her parents would be making

that

call. Parents that love her.. Parents that have her best interest foremost in their minds.

stoopidity.

Perfect.. Just perfect.. She is bamboozled into signing and you say she is too stupid to tell them to wait a bit.. And we are talking about a minor who is told to respect her elders.. Jackie