For 6 years, my boyfriend's (of 8 years) ex-wife violated their divorce decree regarding his visitation rights of his 3 children they share together (18 years old & full time college, 16 years old, 12 years old). He has half of the holidays, birthdays, every other weekend and etc. She refused to communicate with him and so therefore, they go through their children. He wasn't nofitied of his daughter's being hospitalized, son's sport games, school events and many many more. In December of 2008, my boyfriend seeked advice to file a visitation violation on his ex-wife. We were told to document everything. So we documented everything from January 1, 2009 to December 31, 2009 and mailed a letter to her attorney that represented her in their divorce, informing her of the visitation violations. To date, there was no response from her attorney.
Last year in April 2009, my boyfriend's greedy ex-wife filed a modification for child support. The administrative findings were completed in June. I work for the state and my medical costs way less than my boyfriend's employer medical. Since he is under my medical, i offered that his children may go under my medical (as domestic partner child). At that time, she refused my boyfriend's help to provide medical insurance for his children because of the co-pay and remained under the states free medical, Quest.
My boyfriend pays child support and gives his children lunch money, buy school clothes & supplies. He cannot see his children starving or going without. One example, his 16 year old daughter gets $5 a week from ex-wife for school lunch and cannot take home lunch because, ex-wife said the food is for home only. Nowadays, school lunch is $1.45. Where is all the child support going towards? I guess it goes on the trips (Las Vegas, New York) that she takes with her boyfriend.
In January 2010, we went ahead and filed a motion for violation of visitation against the ex-wife. She was served at her job and now, awaiting hearing that is scheduled in May.
On February 23, 2010, my boyfriend recieved another child support modication. I suspect that she went in to modify again to be vendictive. To my understanding, if she can prove that if he makes a 10% increase in pay from the last hearing, then it'll be motified. I guess she didn't recieve the memo that the there is economic decline.
With all that said, my boyfriend wants to provide medical, no if and or buts. Wait, i think it gets better. We just found out (from my boyfriend's daughter) that the ex-wife and her boyfriend (that she left my boyfriend for) are all of a sudden, getting married in Las Vegas on March 26. I want to know, if that'll hurt my boyfriend's chances of providing medical for his children? We suspect, somethings up and we don't know what it is. Also, by her being married, would that change her income regarding child support? Cause i know, it'll change ours if we were to get married.
I know this has been long but thank you in advance.