Try to be brief on this one! Was married for 20 years to a man who was emotionally, mentally and on occasion, physically abusive...a control freak who played lots of mind games. he met someone else, wants a divorce, i didn't want to move out so we played a waiting game to see who left first...after 8 months, i couldnt take it anymore so i moved out. he got a lawyer and filed for dissolution, i could not afford one. he would call at least once a week saying how the comp he worked for couldnt land any jobs, he was prolly gonna loose everything, blah blah, lie,lie...he guilt tripped me into signing everything...but he lied on the papers..he lied about how many vehicles he owned, motorcycles and he lied about his income..i made $30,000 that year, he said he made $60,000 when in reality he made $125,000. after the dissolution was final, he completely remodeled the house, bought a new truck and 2 harleys, built a new garage, flew to vegas and got married, took 2 weeks off and went to sturgis and bought his new wife a new coravette. Now mind you, I dont care about him being remarried...more power to him..the love was gone 10 years before the dissolution..but i live in a rented mobile home and drive a 13 year old vehicle that is on it's last legs and i very rarely can even afford groceries, let alone clothes. he lives in a $275,000 house with 4 vehicles and 3 harleys and travels all the time. can a dissolution be overturned? i dont want it all, but 20 years of my life should be worth something...especially since i gave up my life to be abused by a man who couldn't have cared less!