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As is often the case, "JWB <jwb3333__takeoutallthis__@excite.com>" gets right to the heart of the question in few words. (I hope that positive beginning of this article isn't undone by the fact that I disagree with him. 8-) Here are three separate remarks form him which I believe get to the points at issue: Quote:
I come to this with several points of perspective that may be of interest to those reading, one of which is directly on the question of families in hospitals with dead relatives. My late grandmother was an intensive care nurse at the time when EKG machines were becoming widespread. These early machines were a real advance, though of course nothing like the equipment available now. As I remember her describing it, the screen that showed your heartbeat was several inches around, and an actual heartbeat made a spike about 2.5 inches high. But if you just turned the machine on, and left the electrodes laying in an empty bed, it wouldn't give a flat line. There would be little ripples and bumps in the display. Maybe it was people turning on the power in another part of the building, or walking past the flourescent lights in the same room, or some other such thing. Whatever the cause, an EKG machine that was hooked up to nothing would have little spikes and ripples on it. These artifacts were nothing like an actual cardiac rhythm, and the staff got used to seeing them when the machines were being cleaned and tested and so on. They *also* got used to them when the machine was hooked up to a dead person. If you were on the EKG, and you died, the same little wavers would show up on the display. And they had a rule, after some experience, that if someone died, *before* you let the family members into the room, you have to turn off the machines. Otherwise, someone would come running out into the hall, crying in desperation for a doctor: "The line moved! He's still alive!" It didn't matter if the patient hadn't had a pulse for half an hour, had lost a gallon of blood, and was in rigor mortis. The nurses would try to explain that those little spikes didn't mean anything, to no avail. So the rule: if the patient is certified as dead, you turn off the machines. When a loved one dies, the family members irrationally cling to any possible hint of life. A dead, cold body right in front of them is not evidence enough to make them ignore random static on a screen. * The second is something I mentioned earlier, about Koko the gorilla. "Denise noe <denisenoe@aol.com>" had this in her signature: Quote:
Even viewed sympathetically, the supposed "conversations" she has are more "seeing what you want to see" than language use: http://www.straightdope.com/columns/030328.html I went to far as to compare it to the disaster over "facilitated communication", when a bunch of people ignored all evidence and facts and their own training. Instead, they saw what they wanted to see: http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontl...info/1202.html The full transcript of the program is here: http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontl...ipts/1202.html I'm not a medical expert, and don't pretend to play one here. I did go look at some of the movies on the "terrisfight" website. But so far as I can tell, people looking at those movies can see what they want. Is Mrs Schiavo looking at a shiny balloon proof she's conscious? Or is it just an orienting reflex? I don't pretend to know. If she was playing chess, or something, that would obviously settle it. But it disturbs me a lot that the clips on the website are no *better* than Koko's supposed conversations, or the facilitated communication examples. Many people taken in by FC were highly-trained experts, many with earned graduate degrees in the field, and familiar with principles of double-blind studies and scientific method. And still, they saw what they wanted to see. No family member, and noone strongly committed to anti-euthanasia, can even hope to be more objective than the experts who were so totally self-deceived about FC. But do you hear them speaking with the awareness that their own rationality may be in question? No: they admit no doubt at all. * For a while, I worked in a hospital, helping run and program positron emission tomography machines. (No matter what you saw on Star Trek, antimatter isn't that dangerous as long as you only have a tiny little bit of it.) Modern hospitals go through money like you wouldn't believe, and I do not mean that they waste it. Every needle is used once and discarded. Same with rubber gloves. Biological waste has to be carefully monitored and destroyed. Nuclear waste has to be carefully monitored, tracked, stored, and handled. Combination waste (blood from a patient injected with a radioisotope) can't be entered into either waste stream; the biological material has to be neutralized first. The PET scanner I was responsible for used immense amounts of electricity, and required a full-time employee (an engineer at a high pay grade) to ensure it was adjusted and operating properly. The thought that somebody would expend such huge amounts of money on me, for over 10 years, when I'm in a persistent vegetative state, makes me sick. Spend that money on some kid who doesn't have health insurance, someone who is actually alive and aware and functional. Yes, my life has value -- but it doesn't have *infinite* value even when I'm healthy and aware. It's value against other lives, when there's good reason to believe that I'm brain dead, is much much lower. * And yes, I suspect that if it were my child, I would probably no more rational on this point than anyone else. I would be flipping out, no question about it. Imperfect though they may be, we have courts to decide these things when family members can't agree. So far as I know, every court which has heard this case has concluded that (a) Terri Schiavo is dead in all but body, and (b) the feeding tube should be removed. This was appealed up to the Florida Supreme Court, which upheld the original decision. In the end, the Florida legislature passed a special law giving the governor special powers to override the court's decision. Quoting from a court decision I found on the family website: From our review of the videotapes of Mrs. Schiavo, despite the irrefutable evidence that her cerebral cortex has sustained the most severe of irreparable injuries, we understand why a parent who had raised and nurtured a child from conception would hold out hope that some level of cognitive function remained. If Mrs. Schiavo were our own daughter, we could not but hold to such a faith. [...] It is the trial judge's duty not to make the decision that the judge would make for himself or herself or for a loved one. Instead, the trial judge must make a decision that the clear and convincing evidence shows the ward would have made for herself. It is a thankless task, and one to be undertaken with care, objectivity, and a cautious legal standard designed to promote the value of life. whereupon it was ordered that the feeding tube should be removed. This is not "He want to turn it off, and we didn't get a say". They went to court, they made their case, and they lost. They said "Hey, she should live", and the response was "She's already dead." They appealed, and they appealed again. So far as I can make out, at every point in the progression, the courts came back to the same decision: she is already dead, and it serves nothing to keep her body alive. Yes, it's horrible. It would be great if the court could order someone to heal her and make everything good again. But they can't. Maybe it's the wrong decision. But the wrong decision gets made all the time in courts, and people get the death penalty for crimes they did not commit. But we don't have any perfect way to make these decisions, so it's not clear what to do instead. Perhaps courts aren't the right way to solve these problems, but no sensible alternative has been suggested to me. Is Terri Schiavo still in there? Or is she long since dead in every way that matters? I don't know. I don't even know how to find out. But I do know that we have to make SOME decision, and we need some guidelines for making it. So far as I can tell, those guidelines have been followed in this case, and the decision has been to stop the feedings. Nobody that I know of has said that this is a good thing. Darren Provine ! kilroy@elvis.rowan.edu ! http://www.rowan.edu/~kilroy "Of all men's miseries the bitterest is this, to know so much and to have control over nothing." -- Herodotus |
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"Dr Nancy's Sweetie" <kilroy@elvis.rowan.edu> wrote in message
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"Dr Nancy's Sweetie" <kilroy@elvis.rowan.edu> wrote in message
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On Wed, 23 Feb 2005 20:54:49 +0000 (UTC), Dr Nancy's Sweetie
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Legislator and the Governor, a law was passed to keep her alive. It was passed in days, and that should count as a miracle in itself. The people have spoken. Why are lawsuits still going on? I can ask you the same thing. If the people have spoken (and that is how we decide laws in this country) why is Terri's "husband" still fighting? He should just give it up. The half a mil he spent on lawyers trying to execute his wife could have been better spent other ways (like keeping her alive and giving her her required therapy). -Tony -- "If the grass appears to be greener on the other side of the fence, it's time to fertilize your lawn!" Want to jump start your marriage? Consider a Marriage Encounter weekend. Check out http://www.wwme.org for more information. |
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On Wed, 23 Feb 2005 20:54:49 +0000 (UTC), Dr Nancy's Sweetie
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Legislator and the Governor, a law was passed to keep her alive. It was passed in days, and that should count as a miracle in itself. The people have spoken. Why are lawsuits still going on? I can ask you the same thing. If the people have spoken (and that is how we decide laws in this country) why is Terri's "husband" still fighting? He should just give it up. The half a mil he spent on lawyers trying to execute his wife could have been better spent other ways (like keeping her alive and giving her her required therapy). -Tony -- "If the grass appears to be greener on the other side of the fence, it's time to fertilize your lawn!" Want to jump start your marriage? Consider a Marriage Encounter weekend. Check out http://www.wwme.org for more information. |
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"Tony Miller" <tony@cigardiary.com> wrote in message news:slrnd1t0sn.aqk.tony@home.cigardiary.com... Quote:
I thought this was an interesting site, http://abstractappeal.com/schiavo/infopage.html full of info I didn't know (apparently the husband really worked hard to take care of her, and was noted by medical staff and others for the excellent care that he gave Terri, and he very aggressively sought out all kinds of treatment - it took him years to accept that she would not improve, he even took her for very experimental brain implants to try to get improvement). It also has links to a lot of the court documents. Page 16 of this one was interesting: http://abstractappeal.com/schiavo/WolfsonReport.pdf in which it said that the Schindler family testified that they wanted to keep her alive at all costs - if she contracted diabetes and lost limbs to gangrene, they would amputate them one at a time to keep her alive. If she develops heart disease, they want her to have open heart surgery. They also said that "even if Theresa had told them of her intention to have artificial nutrition withdrawn, they would not do it". |
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"Tony Miller" <tony@cigardiary.com> wrote in message news:slrnd1t0sn.aqk.tony@home.cigardiary.com... Quote:
I thought this was an interesting site, http://abstractappeal.com/schiavo/infopage.html full of info I didn't know (apparently the husband really worked hard to take care of her, and was noted by medical staff and others for the excellent care that he gave Terri, and he very aggressively sought out all kinds of treatment - it took him years to accept that she would not improve, he even took her for very experimental brain implants to try to get improvement). It also has links to a lot of the court documents. Page 16 of this one was interesting: http://abstractappeal.com/schiavo/WolfsonReport.pdf in which it said that the Schindler family testified that they wanted to keep her alive at all costs - if she contracted diabetes and lost limbs to gangrene, they would amputate them one at a time to keep her alive. If she develops heart disease, they want her to have open heart surgery. They also said that "even if Theresa had told them of her intention to have artificial nutrition withdrawn, they would not do it". |
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"Joy" <joy@joydoesntlikespam.com> wrote in message news:xHwTd.3746$ED.2391@fe04.lga... Quote:
Thanks for posting the links. It really allows one to get an unbiased review of the facts. BTW, the small script at the end of this document discounts her parents view of "keep her alive at all costs". They now claim that was not their true intent. The court records would probably state different though. A Man |
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"Joy" <joy@joydoesntlikespam.com> wrote in message news:xHwTd.3746$ED.2391@fe04.lga... Quote:
Thanks for posting the links. It really allows one to get an unbiased review of the facts. BTW, the small script at the end of this document discounts her parents view of "keep her alive at all costs". They now claim that was not their true intent. The court records would probably state different though. A Man |
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In an earlier article, I wrote that, in cases such as that of Terri Schiavo, we have courts in place to examine the available evidence and make decisions about what to do. "Tony Miller <tony@cigardiary.com>" replied: Quote:
the courts are kept separate from the political process (at least in intelligent jurisdictions) is precisely because what's right is not always what's immediately popular. Quote:
because they hold elective office, have any standing in this at all? This is about two facts: 1) how much of her brain is still functioning? and 2) what would she want done if most of her brain was dead? The medical testimony in court is that most of her brain is gone, and that there's no way for it to come back. There's some disagreement about how much is left. Her husband and several of her friends said she would want the feeding stopped. Should elected strangers who never met her once have the right to dispute this claim? Did Jeb Bush know the woman personally? Did anyone in the Florida Legislature? Have they medical knowledge and training sufficient to override the findings of fact as decided by the court? With no reason to believe that either the governor or the legislators are competent medical practitioners, and no reason to believe that either knew the woman well enough to override her husband's statement about what she would want, I have no reason whatever to care at all what they said. This is about two facts, both of which were aired at length in court, and neither of which has been rationally disputed in any way that I see. Quote:
all. He got her therapy for years. He didn't ask a court to decide about the feeding tube until eight years after her cardiac arrest. That's important, so it bears fleshing out: HE did not decide to remove the feeding tube. He asked a court to examine the evidence and make the decision. Many marriages don't last eight years. He spent all that time providing for her care, and hoping for her recovery, even though she was able to give nothing in return. Not a word, not a smile, not a nod of her head. He stuck by her for eight years, in a relationship in which he got *nothing at all* from her. And even then, he didn't make the decision to shut off the machines -- he asked a third party to do it, not knowing in advance what the third party was going to decide. You have called him names, you've used profanity, you've made assertions of fact without so much as pretending to actually have looked at any evidence, and in general done all those things that make people want to avoid you. Have you actually read over a detailed timeline? Have you actually read the transcripts from the case? Do you actually know anything about neurology? Does not having facts even slow you down for one second when you've decided to rant and rave and condemn somebody else? Or are you just so happy to go around condemning people that you don't bother with facts? I wasn't kidding before when I said that many people who avoid church do so because they're afraid they'll run into someone like you. I wonder how you'll explain that, when the time comes? Darren Provine ! kilroy@elvis.rowan.edu ! http://www.rowan.edu/~kilroy "If any of you put a stumbling block before one of these little ones who believe in me, it would be better for you if a great millstone were fastened around your neck and you were drowned in the depth of the sea. Woe to the world because of stumbling blocks! Occasions for stumbling are bound to come, but woe to the one by whom the stumbling block comes!" -- Jesus (Matthew 18:6-7) |
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In an earlier article, I wrote that, in cases such as that of Terri Schiavo, we have courts in place to examine the available evidence and make decisions about what to do. "Tony Miller <tony@cigardiary.com>" replied: Quote:
the courts are kept separate from the political process (at least in intelligent jurisdictions) is precisely because what's right is not always what's immediately popular. Quote:
because they hold elective office, have any standing in this at all? This is about two facts: 1) how much of her brain is still functioning? and 2) what would she want done if most of her brain was dead? The medical testimony in court is that most of her brain is gone, and that there's no way for it to come back. There's some disagreement about how much is left. Her husband and several of her friends said she would want the feeding stopped. Should elected strangers who never met her once have the right to dispute this claim? Did Jeb Bush know the woman personally? Did anyone in the Florida Legislature? Have they medical knowledge and training sufficient to override the findings of fact as decided by the court? With no reason to believe that either the governor or the legislators are competent medical practitioners, and no reason to believe that either knew the woman well enough to override her husband's statement about what she would want, I have no reason whatever to care at all what they said. This is about two facts, both of which were aired at length in court, and neither of which has been rationally disputed in any way that I see. Quote:
all. He got her therapy for years. He didn't ask a court to decide about the feeding tube until eight years after her cardiac arrest. That's important, so it bears fleshing out: HE did not decide to remove the feeding tube. He asked a court to examine the evidence and make the decision. Many marriages don't last eight years. He spent all that time providing for her care, and hoping for her recovery, even though she was able to give nothing in return. Not a word, not a smile, not a nod of her head. He stuck by her for eight years, in a relationship in which he got *nothing at all* from her. And even then, he didn't make the decision to shut off the machines -- he asked a third party to do it, not knowing in advance what the third party was going to decide. You have called him names, you've used profanity, you've made assertions of fact without so much as pretending to actually have looked at any evidence, and in general done all those things that make people want to avoid you. Have you actually read over a detailed timeline? Have you actually read the transcripts from the case? Do you actually know anything about neurology? Does not having facts even slow you down for one second when you've decided to rant and rave and condemn somebody else? Or are you just so happy to go around condemning people that you don't bother with facts? I wasn't kidding before when I said that many people who avoid church do so because they're afraid they'll run into someone like you. I wonder how you'll explain that, when the time comes? Darren Provine ! kilroy@elvis.rowan.edu ! http://www.rowan.edu/~kilroy "If any of you put a stumbling block before one of these little ones who believe in me, it would be better for you if a great millstone were fastened around your neck and you were drowned in the depth of the sea. Woe to the world because of stumbling blocks! Occasions for stumbling are bound to come, but woe to the one by whom the stumbling block comes!" -- Jesus (Matthew 18:6-7) |
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Tony Miller <tony@cigardiary.com> writes:
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Tony Miller <tony@cigardiary.com> writes:
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Doug Anderson wrote:
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seems to go directly through the abdominal wall to the stomach; I suspect that she no longer can swallow and so they have to be very careful. Certainly no use of an NG tube there... I was surprised to learn (when I was admitted to a stroke unit due to a TIA) that a fair number of stroke victims lose the swallowing reflex so there's an effort to check that all that is working w/ a new patient as part of the admission procedure... so they know how to deal with it. -- Jack C Lipton | cupasoup at pele dot cx | http://www.asstr.org/~CupaSoup/ Leadership is about maximizing gains, Management about minimizing losses. This explains why managers like to hire accountants and keep them busy. -me "There _is_ a reason ideology rhymes with idiocy, you know." - me |
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Doug Anderson wrote:
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seems to go directly through the abdominal wall to the stomach; I suspect that she no longer can swallow and so they have to be very careful. Certainly no use of an NG tube there... I was surprised to learn (when I was admitted to a stroke unit due to a TIA) that a fair number of stroke victims lose the swallowing reflex so there's an effort to check that all that is working w/ a new patient as part of the admission procedure... so they know how to deal with it. -- Jack C Lipton | cupasoup at pele dot cx | http://www.asstr.org/~CupaSoup/ Leadership is about maximizing gains, Management about minimizing losses. This explains why managers like to hire accountants and keep them busy. -me "There _is_ a reason ideology rhymes with idiocy, you know." - me |
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On 25 Feb 2005 17:40:34 -0800, Doug Anderson
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-Tony -- "If the grass appears to be greener on the other side of the fence, it's time to fertilize your lawn!" Want to jump start your marriage? Consider a Marriage Encounter weekend. Check out http://www.wwme.org for more information. |
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On 25 Feb 2005 17:40:34 -0800, Doug Anderson
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-Tony -- "If the grass appears to be greener on the other side of the fence, it's time to fertilize your lawn!" Want to jump start your marriage? Consider a Marriage Encounter weekend. Check out http://www.wwme.org for more information. |
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"Tony Miller" <tony@cigardiary.com> wrote in message news:slrnd206mu.f85.tony@home.cigardiary.com... Quote:
filled out a form specifing clearly in black and white that, if they should every be in an irreversible coma or permanent vegetative state in which their physician has determined there there would be no recovery, medical treatment should be withheld or withdrawn - specifically authorizing the withholding or withdrawal of artificially provided food, water, or other nourishment or fluids? What would be your opinion on it in that case? |
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"Tony Miller" <tony@cigardiary.com> wrote in message news:slrnd206mu.f85.tony@home.cigardiary.com... Quote:
filled out a form specifing clearly in black and white that, if they should every be in an irreversible coma or permanent vegetative state in which their physician has determined there there would be no recovery, medical treatment should be withheld or withdrawn - specifically authorizing the withholding or withdrawal of artificially provided food, water, or other nourishment or fluids? What would be your opinion on it in that case? |
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"Tony Miller" <tony@cigardiary.com> wrote in message news:slrnd206mu.f85.tony@home.cigardiary.com... Quote:
medulla oblongata itself can still be regulating inspiration without any higher brain activity, but this is involuntary breathing and not under Teri's control. Jess |
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"Tony Miller" <tony@cigardiary.com> wrote in message news:slrnd206mu.f85.tony@home.cigardiary.com... Quote:
medulla oblongata itself can still be regulating inspiration without any higher brain activity, but this is involuntary breathing and not under Teri's control. Jess |
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Tony Miller <tony@cigardiary.com> writes:
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And you brought up "brain dead," not me. I'm not sure it is relevant here, since I don't know that Schiavo has been declared "brain dead" (I suspect she hasn't), nor is it clear to me what the definition of "brain dead" is. So I think you are just muddying the water. I think the big issue here isn't about Schiavo. The big issue is one of medical ethics in general. Tony would have us "not play god" (or maybe what he really means is "not play pope"). I think when someone says that, they are objecting to making medical decisions that may determine life or death. But that horse is irretrievably gone. Medicine is complex, and decisions get made every day that determine life or death. Furthermore, this is unavoidable. If you attempt to refuse to make the decision, that is a decision too, and also has a life or death effect. (My ethical decision here would result in saving many more lives: let Schiavo die, and use the resources that would have paid for continued care for her to supply IV fluids to babies dying of diarrhea in the third world. Cheap, related, and life-saving.) 100 years ago, Schiavo would have died. As a society we've effectively made the decision to develop and use the technologies that have kept her breathing and kept her heart beating for 15 years in spite of the fact that her mind is gone. That is "playing god" too. Of course life-and-death decisions aren't limited to medicine. We (in the U.S.) consider it OK to execute people. We consider it OK to start a war costing tens of thousands of lives for psychological reasons. So I find it grossly ironic that some argue against doing the right thing for Schiavo because men shouldn't be making decisions like this. (By the way, these aren't the Schindler's arguments. They hold onto misplaced hope that their daughter is capable of recovery, and that is _their_ argument. Well, that and libeling their son-in-law.) Doug |
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Tony Miller <tony@cigardiary.com> writes:
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And you brought up "brain dead," not me. I'm not sure it is relevant here, since I don't know that Schiavo has been declared "brain dead" (I suspect she hasn't), nor is it clear to me what the definition of "brain dead" is. So I think you are just muddying the water. I think the big issue here isn't about Schiavo. The big issue is one of medical ethics in general. Tony would have us "not play god" (or maybe what he really means is "not play pope"). I think when someone says that, they are objecting to making medical decisions that may determine life or death. But that horse is irretrievably gone. Medicine is complex, and decisions get made every day that determine life or death. Furthermore, this is unavoidable. If you attempt to refuse to make the decision, that is a decision too, and also has a life or death effect. (My ethical decision here would result in saving many more lives: let Schiavo die, and use the resources that would have paid for continued care for her to supply IV fluids to babies dying of diarrhea in the third world. Cheap, related, and life-saving.) 100 years ago, Schiavo would have died. As a society we've effectively made the decision to develop and use the technologies that have kept her breathing and kept her heart beating for 15 years in spite of the fact that her mind is gone. That is "playing god" too. Of course life-and-death decisions aren't limited to medicine. We (in the U.S.) consider it OK to execute people. We consider it OK to start a war costing tens of thousands of lives for psychological reasons. So I find it grossly ironic that some argue against doing the right thing for Schiavo because men shouldn't be making decisions like this. (By the way, these aren't the Schindler's arguments. They hold onto misplaced hope that their daughter is capable of recovery, and that is _their_ argument. Well, that and libeling their son-in-law.) Doug |
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"Doug Anderson" <ethelthelogremovethis@yahoo.com> wrote in message
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"Doug Anderson" <ethelthelogremovethis@yahoo.com> wrote in message
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Either we play god, or we don't. Inserting a breathing tube is not allowing her a "natural death" - that should be what the church is against. |
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On Sat, 26 Feb 2005 08:49:34 -0500, Joy
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ethical. -Tony -- "If the grass appears to be greener on the other side of the fence, it's time to fertilize your lawn!" Want to jump start your marriage? Consider a Marriage Encounter weekend. Check out http://www.wwme.org for more information. |
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On Sat, 26 Feb 2005 08:49:34 -0500, Joy
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ethical. -Tony -- "If the grass appears to be greener on the other side of the fence, it's time to fertilize your lawn!" Want to jump start your marriage? Consider a Marriage Encounter weekend. Check out http://www.wwme.org for more information. |
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On 26 Feb 2005 07:52:04 -0800, Doug Anderson
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Terri breathes on her own. Her heart beats on it's own. If she continues to be fed, her heart will continue to beat and she will continue to breathe until she stops, in which case she's dead. -Tony -- "If the grass appears to be greener on the other side of the fence, it's time to fertilize your lawn!" Want to jump start your marriage? Consider a Marriage Encounter weekend. Check out http://www.wwme.org for more information. |
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On 26 Feb 2005 07:52:04 -0800, Doug Anderson
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Terri breathes on her own. Her heart beats on it's own. If she continues to be fed, her heart will continue to beat and she will continue to breathe until she stops, in which case she's dead. -Tony -- "If the grass appears to be greener on the other side of the fence, it's time to fertilize your lawn!" Want to jump start your marriage? Consider a Marriage Encounter weekend. Check out http://www.wwme.org for more information. |
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Tony Miller <tony@cigardiary.com> writes:
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She doesn't swallow. 100 years ago, she wouldn't have a feeding tube, which is precisely what the debate is about. Stick to the issues instead of trying to project your ignorance on others. |
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