My fiance and I are getting married next weekend because the mother of his 2 1/2 month old daughter claims I have no say in their daughters life. We have our first court hearing on Nov. 9 to establish custody and sort out issues of paternity. The mother is trying to keep him from seeing his daughter he hasn't even held her, yet. She claims that the courts will agree with her on the issue of sole custody rather than joint physical custody due to the fact that their daughter is only 2 1/2 months old and the mother is all she knows. How is he supposted to get to know his daughter if she will not let him see her? She has finally agreed to let us see their daughter for a couple hours tomorrow. Is their an age limit on joint physical custody? Can this be used to help us gain joint physical custody? She is expecting a HUGE amount of child support even though she is in a home for unwed, and non-diploma mothers to help educate them while still being able to care for their child, rent free. I am not sure if Kentucky Laws will even work with us on obtaining joint physical custody. Please help me out!