My situation SUCKS right now and I am having a really hard time.
I love my husband with all of my heart, we have 3 children together, but recently he has become more serious in verbal abuse and also physical aspects, such as choking, grabbing, shoving, punching holes in things and in front of the children. My daughter had to call 911 on him when he had me trapped in the bathroom holding me because I got a job and it is as a waitress at a bar. I then got a PFA on him and got my own apartment. That was just 4 days ago. Our hearing for the permanent PFA is next week.
I no longer want to go through with it. I miss him and feel safer now that I have my own apt and he can not legally just come in as he pleases and I could always call the cops since he is not on the lease. After this time period he has had to cool down and know I am not taking things lightly anymore, I do feel safer also he has not tried to violate the PFA at all, but I did text him a lot last night and he apolgized profusely.
How can I go about calling off the hearing? or do I just not go to the hearing?
Please advise me. I am in pennsylvania.