I've read some existing threads on this forum, but I'm still not 100% sure what I need to be thinking.
I met a girl at a local hang-out and she thought I was 18, and I thought she was 17 at youngest. I do look young (so I've been told), and she does look older (so she's been told).
We had a great time, really enjoyed the nite, didn't do anything "bad" (no drinking, sex, drugs...) - we are "smarter" than that
But the fact comes down that she's 15 (you'd never guess if you saw her) and I'm 23. (i know, to be told i look 18 at 23, im doing something right hehe)
Nevertheless, we talked on the phone for days about if we should date and what people would say and what laws we might be breaking...
Now I don't need anyone to get on here and tell me I'm a pervert and I need to find another girl. I've been with other girls; this is the first time I've been with a minor. I really love her; you have no idea so if you're going to tell me I don't love her, don't even post. I'm crazy about her.
Now we're smart enough to know we can't have sex without issues, but we're both ok with waiting.
But someone who is educated on these matters, could you tell me end results for the following situations:
A) We date, and go as far as kissing and touching eachother (all over), but not intercourse, and her parents dont know about it THEN find out about it. Or the cops find out about it. What can either party have done to me/us?
B) We date, and go as far as kidding and touching eachother (all over), but not intercourse, and her parents KNOW about it, but THEN the cops find out. Is there an issue?
C) We lose control, we have sex, and the cops find out.
...or any other situations you think I should know about.
Please don't cite legal wordings. I really don't follow them all too well. I still don't have a 100% accurate defination of the "age of consent". She'll be 16 soon so if you wanna tell me how different it would be if she was 16, I'd appreciate it.
I know it seems ... weird. But we do love eachother, and she already talks about wanting to stay with me, and we're both more "nerdy" than drooping bling-bling wearing thugs going thru an indentity crisis. I'd like to try and make this work.
I know parents on this forum don't know me from atom, but I can assure you I'm not just looking for a ride. We love just talking for hours and we laugh for so long. I don't want to lose this...
Please help us.