Positive Thoughts

[Seeker]

Her skin is unwrinkled, ivory white, pleasant to the touch, and
unblemished.

Ted

[Seeker]

She is compassionate and generous to those in financial need.

Her skin is unwrinkled, ivory white, pleasant to the touch, and
unblemished.

[Seeker]

She is compassionate and generous to those in financial need.

Her skin is unwrinkled, ivory white, pleasant to the touch, and
unblemished.

[Cari{P}]

Seeker wrote:

She is compassionate and generous to those in financial need. Her skin is unwrinkled, ivory white, pleasant to the touch, and unblemished.

Are you trying to pimp your wife out here?

[Cari{P}]

Seeker wrote:

She is compassionate and generous to those in financial need. Her skin is unwrinkled, ivory white, pleasant to the touch, and unblemished.

Are you trying to pimp your wife out here?

[Seeker]

You must not have read Joy's suggestion that I try to think of one positive
thing to say about my wife every day here. In general I will not respond
to what others may choose to say about what I decide to post in this thread.

Ted

"Cari{P}" <cari_p@comcast.net> wrote in message
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Are you trying to pimp your wife out here?

[Seeker]

You must not have read Joy's suggestion that I try to think of one positive
thing to say about my wife every day here. In general I will not respond
to what others may choose to say about what I decide to post in this thread.

Ted

"Cari{P}" <cari_p@comcast.net> wrote in message
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Are you trying to pimp your wife out here?

[Ignoramus11750]

she probably still has teeth, also, as well.

i

In article <210320042259190986%anon-30263@anon.twwells.com>, Seeker wrote:

Her skin is unwrinkled, ivory white, pleasant to the touch, and unblemished. Ted

[Ignoramus11750]

she probably still has teeth, also, as well.

i

In article <210320042259190986%anon-30263@anon.twwells.com>, Seeker wrote:

Her skin is unwrinkled, ivory white, pleasant to the touch, and unblemished. Ted

[toribio222]

"Seeker" <anon-30263@anon.twwells.com> wrote in message
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Her skin is unwrinkled, ivory white, pleasant to the touch, and unblemished. Ted

dude, you loosing it

[toribio222]

"Seeker" <anon-30263@anon.twwells.com> wrote in message
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Her skin is unwrinkled, ivory white, pleasant to the touch, and unblemished. Ted

dude, you loosing it

[Tai]

Seeker wrote:

You must not have read Joy's suggestion that I try to think of one positive thing to say about my wife every day here. In general I will not respond to what others may choose to say about what I decide to post in this thread.

FWIW I think it's a good idea.

[Tai]

Seeker wrote:

You must not have read Joy's suggestion that I try to think of one positive thing to say about my wife every day here. In general I will not respond to what others may choose to say about what I decide to post in this thread.

FWIW I think it's a good idea.

[Cari{P}]

Tai wrote:

Seeker wrote:

FWIW I think it's a good idea.

I think him actually telling his wife these things every day would be
much better.

[Cari{P}]

Tai wrote:

Seeker wrote:

FWIW I think it's a good idea.

I think him actually telling his wife these things every day would be
much better.

[Cari{P}]

Cari{P} wrote:

Tai wrote:

I think him actually telling his wife these things every day would be much better.

Well.. unless he's accepting bids.

[Cari{P}]

Cari{P} wrote:

Tai wrote:

I think him actually telling his wife these things every day would be much better.

Well.. unless he's accepting bids.

[Seeker]

She has an incredible memory for detail in history, facts, commitments and
conversations.

She is compassionate and generous to those in financial need.

Her skin is unwrinkled, ivory white, pleasant to the touch, and
unblemished.

[Seeker]

She has an incredible memory for detail in history, facts, commitments and
conversations.

She is compassionate and generous to those in financial need.

Her skin is unwrinkled, ivory white, pleasant to the touch, and
unblemished.

[Dreamspinner3]

You make her sound like some terrific new product being hawked on a
infomercial.

On Tue, 23 Mar 2004 10:13:42 -0600, "Seeker"
<tedds212removethis@yahoo.com> wrote:

She has an incredible memory for detail in history, facts, commitments andconversations.She is compassionate and generous to those in financial need.Her skin is unwrinkled, ivory white, pleasant to the touch, andunblemished.

-----
Kim/Dreamspinner3
Visit My Homepage: http://members.tripod.com/dreamspinner3/

[Dreamspinner3]

You make her sound like some terrific new product being hawked on a
infomercial.

On Tue, 23 Mar 2004 10:13:42 -0600, "Seeker"
<tedds212removethis@yahoo.com> wrote:

She has an incredible memory for detail in history, facts, commitments andconversations.She is compassionate and generous to those in financial need.Her skin is unwrinkled, ivory white, pleasant to the touch, andunblemished.

-----
Kim/Dreamspinner3
Visit My Homepage: http://members.tripod.com/dreamspinner3/

[Joy]

"Dreamspinner3" <dreamspinner3@hotpop.com> wrote in message
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You make her sound like some terrific new product being hawked on a infomercial.

I'll take some of the blame for this - it was my thought that Ted spends too
much time focusing on other women's virtues, and not enough time focusing on
his wife's - to the degree that he doesn't really "see" his wifes good
points - and that coming here and posting a "good point" a day might help
serve to focus his attention on his wife's strengths and thereby change his
whole perception of her.

Joy

On Tue, 23 Mar 2004 10:13:42 -0600, "Seeker" <tedds212removethis@yahoo.com> wrote:

and

conversations.She is compassionate and generous to those in financial need.Her skin is unwrinkled, ivory white, pleasant to the touch, andunblemished. ----- Kim/Dreamspinner3 Visit My Homepage: http://members.tripod.com/dreamspinner3/

[Joy]

"Dreamspinner3" <dreamspinner3@hotpop.com> wrote in message
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You make her sound like some terrific new product being hawked on a infomercial.

I'll take some of the blame for this - it was my thought that Ted spends too
much time focusing on other women's virtues, and not enough time focusing on
his wife's - to the degree that he doesn't really "see" his wifes good
points - and that coming here and posting a "good point" a day might help
serve to focus his attention on his wife's strengths and thereby change his
whole perception of her.

Joy

On Tue, 23 Mar 2004 10:13:42 -0600, "Seeker" <tedds212removethis@yahoo.com> wrote:

and

conversations.She is compassionate and generous to those in financial need.Her skin is unwrinkled, ivory white, pleasant to the touch, andunblemished. ----- Kim/Dreamspinner3 Visit My Homepage: http://members.tripod.com/dreamspinner3/

[Cari{P}]

Joy wrote:

"Dreamspinner3" <dreamspinner3@hotpop.com> wrote in message news:6lq160d6g147empq0e5b3ij6fl0hc73cn2@4ax.com...

I'll take some of the blame for this - it was my thought that Ted spends too much time focusing on other women's virtues, and not enough time focusing on his wife's - to the degree that he doesn't really "see" his wifes good points - and that coming here and posting a "good point" a day might help serve to focus his attention on his wife's strengths and thereby change his whole perception of her. Joy

Too bad you didn't suggest that he write these things to her in notes
every day instead of pimping her out here :P

[Cari{P}]

Joy wrote:

"Dreamspinner3" <dreamspinner3@hotpop.com> wrote in message news:6lq160d6g147empq0e5b3ij6fl0hc73cn2@4ax.com...

I'll take some of the blame for this - it was my thought that Ted spends too much time focusing on other women's virtues, and not enough time focusing on his wife's - to the degree that he doesn't really "see" his wifes good points - and that coming here and posting a "good point" a day might help serve to focus his attention on his wife's strengths and thereby change his whole perception of her. Joy

Too bad you didn't suggest that he write these things to her in notes
every day instead of pimping her out here :P

[Joy]

"Cari{P}" <cari_p@comcast.net> wrote in message
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Joy wrote:

too

much time focusing on other women's virtues, and not enough time

focusing on

his wife's - to the degree that he doesn't really "see" his wifes good points - and that coming here and posting a "good point" a day might

help

serve to focus his attention on his wife's strengths and thereby change

his

whole perception of her. Joy Too bad you didn't suggest that he write these things to her in notes every day instead of pimping her out here :P

It would be a great thing for him to do, of course - but I can't see Ted
doing that. I can see him benefitting from feeling "accountable" to the
group to follow through, of course. Maybe it would be better if he had a
leading paragraph like "training myself to value my wife by posting an
admirable quality every day".

[Joy]

"Cari{P}" <cari_p@comcast.net> wrote in message
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Joy wrote:

too

much time focusing on other women's virtues, and not enough time

focusing on

his wife's - to the degree that he doesn't really "see" his wifes good points - and that coming here and posting a "good point" a day might

help

serve to focus his attention on his wife's strengths and thereby change

his

whole perception of her. Joy Too bad you didn't suggest that he write these things to her in notes every day instead of pimping her out here :P

It would be a great thing for him to do, of course - but I can't see Ted
doing that. I can see him benefitting from feeling "accountable" to the
group to follow through, of course. Maybe it would be better if he had a
leading paragraph like "training myself to value my wife by posting an
admirable quality every day".

[Tai]

Cari{P} wrote:

Joy wrote:

Too bad you didn't suggest that he write these things to her in notes every day instead of pimping her out here :P

I don't think he's pimping her out here but given the <cough> negative
reaction Ted's been getting perhaps it would be better if he made his list
privately. Or maybe he could email it to me and Joy.

I don't think he should be giving his wife the notes, though. An occasional
one, yes, but not on a daily basis. This is homework for Ted and not a
loving gesture to his wife under these circumstances. Ted needs to do lots
of revision on thinking of his wife in positive ways.

Ted, I've meant to say that lately I've felt I've seen glimpses of the
person your wife is and have thought you've talked about her with greater
degrees of humanity and appreciation.

Tai

[Tai]

Cari{P} wrote:

Joy wrote:

Too bad you didn't suggest that he write these things to her in notes every day instead of pimping her out here :P

I don't think he's pimping her out here but given the <cough> negative
reaction Ted's been getting perhaps it would be better if he made his list
privately. Or maybe he could email it to me and Joy.

I don't think he should be giving his wife the notes, though. An occasional
one, yes, but not on a daily basis. This is homework for Ted and not a
loving gesture to his wife under these circumstances. Ted needs to do lots
of revision on thinking of his wife in positive ways.

Ted, I've meant to say that lately I've felt I've seen glimpses of the
person your wife is and have thought you've talked about her with greater
degrees of humanity and appreciation.

Tai

[Seeker]

She shares my religious beliefs and supports my spiritual activities.

She has an incredible memory for detail in history, facts, commitments and
conversations.

She is compassionate and generous to those in financial need.

Her skin is unwrinkled, ivory white, pleasant to the touch, and
unblemished.