can anyone help me... i have just gone through a horrible divorce.. i have a good paying job, but now i only have 134.00/week to live on. i pay 625 a week for 3 children and alimony for my ex who is a registered nurse. i have pretty much lost everything, and now, my question is if i borrow from my 401k, can she also get more money next year because my income will be higher? I dont know what to do...i cant live on this..our company doesnt have much overtime anymore, and that was what my support was based on. can anyone help? thanks.