Hi i know i am not an attorney or lawyer... im just a regular guy with a question behind a story..or is it the other way around :-P. i wouldn't come here if i wasnt pushed to a corner..
I fell in love with a girl of another religion and race who i've been with secretly ever since we met, around 4 months now.. She knew i was here ilegaly and wanted to help me so i can finish school and just basically have a better life.. anyway i just recently found out the truth into why she never even got married with me to start the legalization proccess soon after..
i found out she was already married with a guy 17 years older than her because the girls mother wanted to help him get his papers fixed.. 2 years ago..."now" they went through an interview where his female friend helped by being the translator because he didnt speak english and my girlfriend did. She told me that they passed the interview about 2 weeks ago, around the time i found out and she had told me everything..
I always had a bad relationship with this guy.. so i dont care what happens with him... but if i report this fraud marriage my girlfriend or girl i used to love... will get criminal charges and be on her record.. i came to a decision to join the military because its the only way for me to better my life now and i want to serve this, my country... because i was here since i was 2 or 3(i dont remember when my mother got that visa)and know nothing else..very soon i will meet the requirements to join.. thanks recruiter benavides
..Her mother had more to do with this fake marriage but she loves her mother to death and will hate me if i did this report..i even think the man forced this marriage a bit because he is way younger than the mother(38,56) and made her fall in love with him somehow.
Is there a way for me to report this fraud marriage without my ex-girlfriend and her mother deported or charged criminally?..or what should she do now?
(currently he is waiting in the mail for his permanent residency acceptance letter or whatever it is because the interviewer approved their marriage, he is in texas the girl in florida right now)
p.s. i have proof in pictures i will not show of the pictures she took so that the legal offices believe the marriage.. untill im satisfied or happy with an answer to my question, ill make the full report. Amen and godspeed!