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    I haven't posted here in a while so I hope someone can help me resolve
    this issue.
    My K3 husband with whom I was having a pretty rocky marriage [i do love
    him] brought his 2 sons with K-4 [because of me] living now in Utah. My
    husband told me he was going to visit his sons in Utah. He arrived this
    morning and said he has found a job that would pay him good money but he
    has to live there for a few weeks. I sensed this trip was our last
    goodbye. He and his sons - one of them with SS number as well as my
    husband will be making money to send to their relatives overseas. My
    husband offered to send me money every week once he starts working but I
    know this is his way of keeping me from proceeding with legalization of
    his and his kids status [20 and 21 yrs old]. I'm terribly hurt and want
    to get a divorce ASAP. My question is - once the divorce is final -
    does Immigration cancel my husbands SS and his son's or do they get away
    with using me to get here until their permit expires in March 2006.
    This is not a vindictive action - I just think I have to abide by the
    Immigration rules that say that once marriage is dissolved - benefits
    acquired through US citizen come to an end. Or am I wrong? I have only
    processed work permits and not the removal of permanent condition. Did
    I do the right thing?
    Sorry about being so lengthy. I know this is the only place I can get
    some answers.
    Randie

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    I need help!! K3 showed his true colors and I want out

    I haven't posted here in a while so I hope someone can help me resolve this issue. My K3 husband with whom I was having a pretty rocky marriage [i do love him] brought his 2 sons with K-4 [because of me] living now in Utah. My husband told me he was going to visit his sons in Utah. He arrived this morning and said he has found a job that would pay him good money but he has to live there for a few weeks. I sensed this trip was our last goodbye. He and his sons - one of them with SS number as well as my husband will be making money to send to their relatives overseas. My husband offered to send me money every week once he starts working but I know this is his way of keeping me from proceeding with legalization of his and his kids status [20 and 21 yrs old]. I'm terribly hurt and want to get a divorce ASAP. My question is - once the divorce is final - does Immigration cancel my husbands SS and his son's or do they get away with using me to get here until their permit expires in March 2006. This is not a vindictive action - I just think I have to abide by the Immigration rules that say that once marriage is dissolved - benefits acquired through US citizen come to an end. Or am I wrong? I have only processed work permits and not the removal of permanent condition. Did I do the right thing? Sorry about being so lengthy. I know this is the only place I can get some answers. Randie
    While I'm sure there are two sides to the story, my advice is go ahead
    with the divorce. Be absolutely certain to cover yourself financially.



    I'm sure someone will correct me if I'm wrong, but if the I-485 is not
    submitted, his status should expire when his K-3 expires whether you're
    divorced or not. From the moment you start divorce proceedings,
    immigration is his problem and it's up to him to work his passage. If
    his visa is good until March 2006... well, so be it. Don't worry about
    it. Move on and chalk this up as a valuable lesson learned. Good luck.

    Ian

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      I need help!! K3 showed his true colors and I want out

      While I'm sure there are two sides to the story, my advice is go ahead with the divorce. Be absolutely certain to cover yourself financially. I'm sure someone will correct me if I'm wrong, but if the I-485 is not submitted, his status should expire when his K-3 expires whether you're divorced or not. From the moment you start divorce proceedings, immigration is his problem and it's up to him to work his passage. If his visa is good until March 2006... well, so be it. Don't worry about it. Move on and chalk this up as a valuable lesson learned. Good luck. Ian
      I agree with Ian, you are confusing your issues with his.

      Their immigration situation is not your problem.

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        I need help!! K3 showed his true colors and I want out

        I agree with Ian, you are confusing your issues with his. Their immigration situation is not your problem.
        I think it's very unfair for him and his kids to continue using their
        work permit obtained through me even after the divorce. They think they
        have other alternatives as far as legalizing their status via marriage
        or job contract later on. I wanted those benefits to terminate before
        their expiration date but if there's nothing I can do then let that be
        it.
        thanks for your reply
        Randie

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          I need help!! K3 showed his true colors and I want out

          I think it's very unfair for him and his kids to continue using their work permit obtained through me even after the divorce. They think they have other alternatives as far as legalizing their status via marriage or job contract later on. I wanted those benefits to terminate before their expiration date but if there's nothing I can do then let that be it. thanks for your reply Randie
          Randie,
          Where are they originally from? Sorry to hear about your problems.
          Deb

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            I need help!! K3 showed his true colors and I want out

            Randie, Where are they originally from? Sorry to hear about your problems. Deb
            they're from Peru

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