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    There are 21 messages in this issue.

    Topics in this digest:

    1. 1905/02/01 Usa OH Columbus F ...Ohio Reunion Registry
    From: [email protected]
    2. 1970/09/22 Usa NY New York M ...Given Right
    From: [email protected]
    3. Re: Digest Number 3108
    From: [email protected]
    4. help with a bmom from the 50's..911
    From: [email protected]
    5. Re: help with a bmom from the 50's..911
    From: "marge fortney" <[email protected]>
    6. Re: help with a bmom from the 50's..911
    From: [email protected]
    7. Re: ISO BirthFather - I was born 4/6/80 in Albuquerque New
    Mexico - Female
    From: "marge fortney" <[email protected]>
    8. Re: Fw: I need this back. If you'll do this for me, I'll do
    it
    for you....
    From: [email protected]
    9. Fw: MountainWings:Sunday - To My Friends
    From: "Gerry Gaulden" <[email protected]>
    10. 1958/03/19 Usa KY Shelbyvill F ...Given Right
    From: [email protected]
    11. RE: Posting (PITCHER ATTACHED)
    From: "joan" <[email protected]>
    12. RE: Posting (PITCHER ATTACHED)
    From: [email protected]
    13. Re: Posting (PITCHER ATTACHED)
    From: "Sheila Hart" <[email protected]>
    14. 1977/05/25 Usa FL St. Peters M ...Given Right
    From: [email protected]
    15. RE: Posting (PITCHER ATTACHED)
    From: Mirage <[email protected]>
    16. My Son posted :0)
    From: "Julie Phillips" <[email protected]>
    17. RE: Yet another angel
    From: "Julie Phillips" <[email protected]>
    18. ISO HALF SISTER
    From: "Jennifer" <[email protected]>
    19. Re: My Son posted :0)
    From: brenda kaminski <[email protected]>
    20. Re: Digest Number 3108
    From: Kathy Massa <[email protected]>
    21. RE: My Son posted-Brenda
    From: "Julie Phillips" <[email protected]>


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    Message: 1
    Date: Thu, 13 Nov 2003 18:31:05 EST
    From: [email protected]
    Subject: 1905/02/01 Usa OH Columbus F ...Ohio Reunion Registry

    1905/02/01 Usa OH Columbus F ...Ohio Reunion Registry
    Ohio Reunion Registry - http://www.ohioadoptee.com

    ChildLast =
    ChildFirst =
    BirthMomLast =
    BirthMomFirst = Melanie
    County = Franklin
    BirthDate = 2/1/05
    BirthCertNum = XXX-XX-XXXXXX
    FileNum = female
    Type = A Birth Sister (BS)
    email = OH1068743859551
    City = Columbus
    State = OH-Ohio
    Nation = Usa
    *adopteePublic = No
    ID = OH1068743859551


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    Message: 2
    Date: Thu, 13 Nov 2003 18:31:38 EST
    From: [email protected]
    Subject: 1970/09/22 Usa NY New York M ...Given Right

    1970/09/22 Usa NY New York M ...Given Right
    Given Right - http://givenright.hypermart.net

    ChildLast =
    ChildFirst = Victor
    BirthMomLast =
    BirthMomFirst = Andrea
    County = Bronx
    BirthDate = 9/22/70
    BirthCertNum = 156-70-215875
    FileNum = male
    Type = An Adoptee (AD)
    email = ASG1067524834955
    City = New York
    State = NY-New York
    Nation = Usa
    *adopteePublic = No
    ID = ASG1067524834955


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    Message: 3
    Date: Thu, 13 Nov 2003 19:14:09 EST
    From: [email protected]
    Subject: Re: Digest Number 3108

    I received an email telling me how to start my search and I responded
    back
    with questions on how to do the things in the email. I have not seen
    my email
    on the group or received a response from anyone. Help!


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    Message: 4
    Date: Thu, 13 Nov 2003 20:08:40 EST
    From: [email protected]
    Subject: help with a bmom from the 50's..911

    hey everyone,
    can anyone tell me the best way to handle a bmom from this era?
    i have tried contacting her with absolutely no luck.
    i did talk with her husband who seems to be on my side.. he thinks she

    ought
    to face it and at least look at the pics of her son, and
    grandchildren.
    but
    she is scared to death. he said the whole deal was very traumatic for
    her. i
    told him i completely understood as i am also a bmom. i did tell him
    to
    tell her
    i admire her for her decision and that i love her for it. i just dont

    know
    what else to do. he asked me to forget the number.. i told him i
    would.
    i feel
    like he is a allie with me, but i dont want to push my luck.. another
    strange
    thing, she has another name from when she was married before..i tried
    to
    mention it to him. but when he heard the name, he got a little upset
    with it, and
    told me to forget that name.. it never exsisted. at her address a few
    years ago
    was a young man with the same last name, and he spoke very sternly
    toforget
    that name... so my curosity is up..
    what am i to do.. ? i told him that not to worry i wouldnt come
    there..
    all i
    wanted was some medical advice.. (i would come in a heartbeat) so he
    answered
    a few questions.. not enough.. but afraid to push my luck..
    so help! what do ya'll think i should do? please someone give me some
    peace
    on this.. i know this woman is terrified.. how do i get thru to her?
    love,
    lynn
    found hubby's birthmom
    contact 11-13-03
    lost again....11-13-03


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    Message: 5
    Date: Thu, 13 Nov 2003 20:40:05 -0500
    From: "marge fortney" <[email protected]>
    Subject: Re: help with a bmom from the 50's..911

    I am not sure why she is afraid it could be because of her husband or
    still her parents. I would jump over the moon if that would help me
    find
    my son but at the same time I am afraid because it brings up so many
    questions that I may not be equiped to handle.We were told to forget
    it
    and we some of us were drugged etc.etc. etc. Some of us never forgot
    the
    names we were called like tramp **** and others we took them to heart
    and while our children seem to understand they have no real way of
    understanding that fear will always be with us...I would maybe suggest

    intervention from someone other than the husband perhaps someone else
    she
    trusts with her innermost secrets and her heart...While husbands are
    great (well mine is anyway ) there is always someone else we tell
    everything to with out fear of retribution..see if there is a minister
    or other
    relative that is so close to her and have them talk with her ..as long

    as they are not part of the problem this may help..
    I am not sure that helped and all I can say is that whatever the fear
    is based on it runs very deep and I don't believe that you are the
    problem Her fear actually only has very little to do with you it is a
    fear
    that was instilled in her before you were born and carried on through
    her pregnancy and is held there by something or someone very powerfull
    in
    her life..hold her in your heart and prayers You will be in my prayers

    and so will she so that she may overcome her fear and be free to
    accept
    herself and be a part of your life
    take care and God Bless
    marge
    ----- Original Message -----
    From: [email protected]
    To: [email protected] ; [email protected] ;
    [email protected] ; [email protected] ;
    [email protected] ; [email protected] ;

    [email protected] ; [email protected] ;
    [email protected] ; [email protected]
    Sent: Thursday, November 13, 2003 8:08 PM
    Subject: [AngelsLostInAdoption] help with a bmom from the 50's..911


    hey everyone,
    can anyone tell me the best way to handle a bmom from this era?
    i have tried contacting her with absolutely no luck.
    i did talk with her husband who seems to be on my side.. he thinks
    she ought to face it and at least look at the pics of her son, and
    grandchildren. but she is scared to death. he said the whole deal was
    very
    traumatic for her. i told him i completely understood as i am also a
    bmom. i did tell him to tell her i admire her for her decision and
    that i
    love her for it. i just dont know what else to do. he asked me to
    forget the number.. i told him i would. i feel like he is a allie with
    me,
    but i dont want to push my luck.. another strange thing, she has
    another
    name from when she was married before..i tried to mention it to him.
    but when he heard the name, he got a little upset with it, and told
    me
    to forget that name.. it never exsisted. at her address a few years
    ago
    was a young man with the same last name, and he spoke very sternly
    toforget that name... so my curosity is up..
    what am i to do.. ? i told him that not to worry i wouldnt come
    there.. all i wanted was some medical advice.. (i would come in a
    heartbeat)
    so he answered a few questions.. not enough.. but afraid to push my
    luck..
    so help! what do ya'll think i should do? please someone give me
    some
    peace on this.. i know this woman is terrified.. how do i get thru to
    her?
    love,
    lynn
    found hubby's birthmom
    contact 11-13-03
    lost again....11-13-03

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    Message: 6
    Date: Thu, 13 Nov 2003 20:43:51 EST
    From: [email protected]
    Subject: Re: help with a bmom from the 50's..911

    i would try sending a letter with out a return on the envelope let
    her
    know how u feel and put your addy in the letter. thats what i would
    do
    .. hope
    this helps a little .

    susan

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    Message: 7
    Date: Thu, 13 Nov 2003 20:48:36 -0500
    From: "marge fortney" <[email protected]>
    Subject: Re: ISO BirthFather - I was born 4/6/80 in Albuquerque New
    Mexico - Female

    Fran there is a book or possible a flyer you can check on it is called

    AIR FORCE TIMES..IN THERE IT HAS A SECTION THAT ASKS IF YOU ARE
    LOOKING
    FOR X MILITARY PERSONELL I WILL CHECK AFTERBURNER FOR YOU ALSO AS MY
    HUSBAND IS EX AIR FORCE..
    I WILL LET YOU KNOW TOMORROW IF I FIND OUT ANYTHING THE DOD
    (DEPARTMENT
    OF DEFENSE) IS IN MO I BELIEVE AND THEY MAY BE ABLE TO HELP ALSO HANG
    IN THERE I WILL DO SOME CHECKING TOMORROW FOR YOU..AND SEE WHAT I COME

    UP WITH..IF I CAN I WILL DO SOME TONIGHT.
    TAKE CARE AND GOD BLESS
    MARGE
    ----- Original Message -----
    From: Mindie Affholter
    To: AngelsLostIn[email protected]
    Sent: Wednesday, November 12, 2003 4:19 PM
    Subject: Re: [AngelsLostInAdoption] ISO BirthFather - I was born
    4/6/80 in Albuquerque New Mexico - Female


    Fran,

    Have you tried possible checking with Base Locator or even the Red
    Cross. If he was prior military they may be able to help. Also, the
    Veteran's Administration may be able to help you, also. My mother and

    step-father were both prior military, so I now alittle bit about
    trying to
    locate prior service members.

    Good Luck
    Mindie

    Fran <[email protected]> wrote:
    Can someone help me? I have been searching for 5 years off and
    on.

    I was adopted by my step-father.

    Birthfather: Christopher Mann Jr.
    He was in the US Air Force
    He was stationed in Kirtland AFB, NM around 1979/1980

    His mother passed away around that same timeframe.

    Please help me...




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    Message: 8
    Date: Thu, 13 Nov 2003 21:06:47 EST
    From: [email protected]
    Subject: Re: Fw: I need this back. If you'll do this for me, I'll do
    it
    for you....





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    Message: 9
    Date: Thu, 13 Nov 2003 20:46:01 -0600
    From: "Gerry Gaulden" <[email protected]>
    Subject: Fw: MountainWings:Sunday - To My Friends





    ----- Original Message ----
    From: "MountainWings" <[email protected]>
    To: "Gerry" <[email protected]>
    Sent: Saturday, November 08, 2003 10:00 PM
    Subject: MountainWings:Sunday - To My Friends

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    Message: 10
    Date: Thu, 13 Nov 2003 22:24:06 EST
    From: [email protected]
    Subject: 1958/03/19 Usa KY Shelbyvill F ...Given Right

    1958/03/19 Usa KY Shelbyvill F ...Given Right
    Given Right - ttp://givenright.hypermart.net

    ChildLast =
    ChildFirst = Childfirst
    BirthMomLast =
    BirthMomFirst = Momfirst
    County = Shelby
    BirthDate = 3/19/58
    BirthCertNum = 116 20443
    FileNum = female
    Type = An Adoptee (AD)
    email = ASG1067575755500
    City = Shelbyville
    State = KY-Kentucky
    Nation = Usa
    *adopteePublic = No
    ID = ASG1067575755500


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    Message: 11
    Date: Thu, 13 Nov 2003 21:33:29 -0700
    From: "joan" <[email protected]>
    Subject: RE: Posting (PITCHER ATTACHED)

    Hi, if you said he was born in Indiana? Indiana is open. Check with
    them,
    maybe they will have info. If Indiana knew about the adoption, then
    they
    might have all the info, sitting there. Joan

    -----Original Message-----
    From: frankie borgas [mailto:[email protected]]
    Sent: Wednesday, November 12, 2003 3:28 AM
    To: [email protected]
    Cc: [email protected]
    Subject: Re: [AngelsLostInAdoption] Posting (PITCHER ATTACHED)

    HELLO EVERYONE,
    I HAVE NEVER DONE THIS BEFORE AND IT,S LATE
    HERE.
    LET ME TELL YOU A LITTLE ABOUT ME. (FIRST THING I AM DOING THIS ON MY
    MOMS
    NAME SHE IS SLEEPING)
    A LITTLE ABOUT MY MOM (B/M) SHE IS A GREAT LADY SHE FOUND ME THIS YEAR

    AND
    NEVER GAVE UP. I WAS ADOPTIVE AT 3 YRS OLD AND WE FOUND EACH OTHER
    THIS
    YR.
    ON VALENTINES DAY. AND I WILL GET TO CELEBRATE MY 21 BIRTHDAY WITH HER

    AND I
    AM SO EXCITED. I LOVE HER SO AND HAVING HER BACK IN MY LIFE. YES I
    HAVE
    GREAT ADOPTIVE PARENTS BUT THEY CANT AND COULD NEVER GIVE ME WHAT I
    NEED
    FROM MY MOTHER. I WAS RAISED AS A ONLY CHILD AND FINDING I HAVE 1
    SISTER AND
    3 BROTHERS GOD HAS BEEN GREAT TO ME. ABOUT 6 YRS AGO SHE FOUND THE
    OLDEST
    ONE HE WAS 16 WHEN MOM FOUND HIM AND HE WAS IN A VERY BAD SITUATION.
    SO
    MOM
    WENT IN AND GOT CUSTODY AND ALL BACK OF HIM BELIEVE ME FROM AN
    ADOPTIVE
    PERSON THE SYSTEM DOES NOT ALWAYS WORK SPECIALLY IN ILLINOIS. HE WAS
    ABUSED
    BAD FROM THESE PEOPLE WELL MOM MADE IT AND SO DID HE WITH COUNSELING
    ALL IS
    GOOD. KNOW. HE IS MARRIED HAS A BABY AND ME TO MARRIED AND HAVE BABY.

    SO
    YOU SEE LIFE HAS BEEN GOOD SO FAR WE MADE MOM A GRANDMOTHER 2 TIMES .
    YOU
    ASK DOES SHE LIKE IT AT 40, YES SHE IS LOVING IT MORE THAN I EVER
    IMAGINE.
    SHE HAS BEEN GOOD WE JUST WANT TO FINISH THIS PITCHER FOR HER SHE
    LIGHTS A
    CANDLE EACH DAY AND PRAYS WE HAVE ONE MORE OUT THERE AND I WILL TELL
    YOU
    HOPING SOMEONE CAN HELP US.GOD BLESS.
    INFO ON LAST ONE MISSING:
    CHRISTOPHER ANTHONY SALYARS
    BORN: PORTER COUNTY INDIANA
    ADOPTIVE: PEORIA ILLINOIS (HE WAS A YR OLD)
    MOTHER NAME AT BIRTH WAS: FRANCES SALYARS SHE WAS 23
    WE ONLY KNOW THE PEOPLE WHOM ADOPTIVE CHRIS THE FATHER WORKED FOR THE
    POST
    OFFICE AND THE MOTHER WAS A BAR TENDER.
    CHRIS HAD OPEN HEART AT BIRTH IN CHICAGO ILLINOIS
    MOM WAS WITH HIM EACH DAY PLEASE I HOPE SOMEONE CAN HELP SHE IS ILL
    HER
    SELF
    SHE HAS HAD STROKES AND BAD HEART.
    GOD BLESS YOU ALL. HER OLDEST DAUGHTER



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    Message: 12
    Date: Thu, 13 Nov 2003 23:41:17 -0500 (EST)
    From: [email protected]
    Subject: RE: Posting (PITCHER ATTACHED)

    Hi Everyone,
    Here is a site that will tell you about the Adoption Records by State
    and who to contact in the state that you are searching in. I hope this
    helps.


    Adoption Records by State
    http://www.abcadoptions.com/adoptionrecords.htm

    Hugs
    Owner
    Bernice



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    Message: 13
    Date: Fri, 14 Nov 2003 06:27:56 -0500
    From: "Sheila Hart" <[email protected]>
    Subject: Re: Posting (PITCHER ATTACHED)

    In Indiana you can get non-identifying information or identifying
    information. Contact the Indiana State Department of Health/Vital
    Records
    Department at 317-233-7253 and ask them to mail you the forms for
    non-id
    and id info. I did and received them in a short amount of time.
    Getting
    this information is the first step and could be a very important one -

    I was searching for a b-son, and when I received my non-id info, I had

    actually given birth to a daughter. I was not told when I gave birth,
    in fact I was blind folded in the delivery room, it was 35 years later

    that I was told by a family member that I had had a boy but when I
    received my no-id info it was a girl! The only was they will give you
    identifying info is if the b-mom and adoptee have both completed the
    identifying info forms.

    Good luck in your search.

    Sheila
    ----- Original Message -----
    From: joan
    To: [email protected]
    Sent: Thursday, November 13, 2003 11:33 PM
    Subject: RE: [AngelsLostInAdoption] Posting (PITCHER ATTACHED)


    Hi, if you said he was born in Indiana? Indiana is open. Check
    with
    them, maybe they will have info. If Indiana knew about the adoption,
    then they might have all the info, sitting there. Joan



    -----Original Message-----
    From: frankie borgas [mailto:[email protected]]
    Sent: Wednesday, November 12, 2003 3:28 AM
    To: [email protected]
    Cc: [email protected]
    Subject: Re: [AngelsLostInAdoption] Posting (PITCHER ATTACHED)



    HELLO EVERYONE,

    I HAVE NEVER DONE THIS BEFORE AND IT,S LATE

    HERE.

    LET ME TELL YOU A LITTLE ABOUT ME. (FIRST THING I AM DOING THIS ON
    MY
    MOMS NAME SHE IS SLEEPING)

    A LITTLE ABOUT MY MOM (B/M) SHE IS A GREAT LADY SHE FOUND ME THIS
    YEAR AND NEVER GAVE UP. I WAS ADOPTIVE AT 3 YRS OLD AND WE FOUND EACH
    OTHER THIS YR. ON VALENTINES DAY. AND I WILL GET TO CELEBRATE MY 21
    BIRTHDAY WITH HER AND I AM SO EXCITED. I LOVE HER SO AND HAVING HER
    BACK IN MY
    LIFE. YES I HAVE GREAT ADOPTIVE PARENTS BUT THEY CANT AND COULD NEVER
    GIVE ME WHAT I NEED FROM MY MOTHER. I WAS RAISED AS A ONLY CHILD AND
    FINDING I HAVE 1 SISTER AND 3 BROTHERS GOD HAS BEEN GREAT TO ME. ABOUT
    6
    YRS AGO SHE FOUND THE OLDEST ONE HE WAS 16 WHEN MOM FOUND HIM AND HE
    WAS
    IN A VERY BAD SITUATION. SO MOM WENT IN AND GOT CUSTODY AND ALL BACK
    OF
    HIM BELIEVE ME FROM AN ADOPTIVE PERSON THE SYSTEM DOES NOT ALWAYS WORK

    SPECIALLY IN ILLINOIS. HE WAS ABUSED BAD FROM THESE PEOPLE WELL MOM
    MADE IT AND SO DID HE WITH COUNSELING ALL IS GOOD. KNOW. HE IS
    MARRIED
    HAS A BABY AND ME TO MARRIED AND HAVE BABY. SO YOU SEE LIFE HAS BEEN
    GOOD
    SO FAR WE MADE MOM A GRANDMOTHER 2 TIMES . YOU ASK DOES SHE LIKE IT AT

    40, YES SHE IS LOVING IT MORE THAN I EVER IMAGINE. SHE HAS BEEN GOOD
    WE
    JUST WANT TO FINISH THIS PITCHER FOR HER SHE LIGHTS A CANDLE EACH DAY
    AND PRAYS WE HAVE ONE MORE OUT THERE AND I WILL TELL YOU HOPING
    SOMEONE
    CAN HELP US.GOD BLESS.

    INFO ON LAST ONE MISSING:

    CHRISTOPHER ANTHONY SALYARS

    BORN: PORTER COUNTY INDIANA

    ADOPTIVE: PEORIA ILLINOIS (HE WAS A YR OLD)

    MOTHER NAME AT BIRTH WAS: FRANCES SALYARS SHE WAS 23

    WE ONLY KNOW THE PEOPLE WHOM ADOPTIVE CHRIS THE FATHER WORKED FOR
    THE
    POST OFFICE AND THE MOTHER WAS A BAR TENDER.

    CHRIS HAD OPEN HEART AT BIRTH IN CHICAGO ILLINOIS

    MOM WAS WITH HIM EACH DAY PLEASE I HOPE SOMEONE CAN HELP SHE IS ILL
    HER SELF SHE HAS HAD STROKES AND BAD HEART.

    GOD BLESS YOU ALL. HER OLDEST DAUGHTER








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    Message: 14
    Date: Fri, 14 Nov 2003 10:15:32 EST
    From: [email protected]
    Subject: 1977/05/25 Usa FL St. Peters M ...Given Right

    1977/05/25 Usa FL St. Peters M ...Given Right
    Given Right - http://givenright.hypermart.net

    ChildLast =
    ChildFirst = Shane Michael
    BirthMomLast =
    BirthMomFirst = Margie
    County = Pinellas
    BirthDate = 5/25/77
    BirthCertNum = XXX-XX-XXXXXX
    FileNum = male
    Type = A Birth Mother (BM)
    email = ASG1067593039180
    City = St. Petersburg
    State = FL-Florida
    Nation = Usa
    *adopteePublic = No
    ID = ASG1067593039180


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    Message: 15
    Date: Fri, 14 Nov 2003 10:51:34 -0500
    From: Mirage <[email protected]>
    Subject: RE: Posting (PITCHER ATTACHED)

    Indiana is NOT open...I've been searching in Indiana for 21 years...if

    it was open, I'd have already found.

    Vicki

    -----Original Message-----
    From: joan [SMTP:[email protected]]
    Sent: Thursday, November 13, 2003 11:33 PM
    To: [email protected]
    Subject: RE: [AngelsLostInAdoption] Posting (PITCHER ATTACHED)

    Hi, if you said he was born in Indiana? Indiana is open. Check with
    them,
    maybe they will have info. If Indiana knew about the adoption, then
    they
    might have all the info, sitting there. Joan





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    Message: 16
    Date: Fri, 14 Nov 2003 10:02:35 -0500
    From: "Julie Phillips" <[email protected]>
    Subject: My Son posted :0)

    I had to share with you all!! I'm so happy. My Son posted the below to

    another group I belong to (michigansearching.com) he must have joined
    last night. I don't think you could find a happier Bmother right
    now--defiantly on cloud 9!
    Jules P



    Hi all,
    this is my first post. I have been in contact with my bmom (Julie
    Phillips) since 4/1/03 she has been known to post here and I am sure
    that she will see this. She is great, I couldnt have a better person
    to have as a birth mother. I love her dearly, she is sweet, kind,
    caring and very loving. The reason why I am doing this post, is
    because the problem that I am having is, that I cant tell her I love
    her, I can send it in and email and in a card. I want to tell her
    but every time I want to, I freeze up and cant do it. What I was
    wondering is that if any other adoptees that have reuntied have had
    the same problem?
    thanks
    Ron



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    Message: 17
    Date: Fri, 14 Nov 2003 11:57:14 -0500
    From: "Julie Phillips" <[email protected]>
    Subject: RE: Yet another angel

    For the ladies on our list.......








    Ok ...how many of you ENJOY getting those crappy little angel
    love notes from every person in your address book? You know the
    ones I mean, *I love you so here's a too cutesy angel and some mushy
    poem to prove it...* ~~
    BLECHHH!!!!
    Like the cute wasn't bad enough, then they FORCE you to send it on to

    others! A vicious circle!
    Here's MY version:

    YOU'VE BEEN TAGGED BY THE GOOD LUCK ANGEL!!
    HE'S GOOD LUCK BECAUSE HE PROBABLY MADE YA SMILE.
    LOOKS GOOD DON'T HE?



    WHEN YOU'RE FINISHED TRYING TO SEE UP HIS LOINCLOTH...
    WHY NOT SEND THIS ON TO SOME OF YOUR GIRLFRIENDS? JUST DON'T SEND
    IT BACK TO ME. I FINALLY GOT ALL THE DROOL OUT OF MY KEYBOARD..







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    Message: 18
    Date: Fri, 14 Nov 2003 16:53:18 -0000
    From: "Jennifer" <[email protected]>
    Subject: ISO HALF SISTER

    Hi my name is Jennifer, and I am looking for my half
    sister, she was adopted when she was young. Her name is Christy
    Payne, the last i know she was living in Bowling Green Ky. Her
    birthday is november 29, 1976 or 1977. Her bmom's nam eis Barbara
    English, Christy's name at brith was Christy Hope. If anyany can help
    me please feel free to do so...thanks





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    Message: 19
    Date: Fri, 14 Nov 2003 09:30:06 -0800 (PST)
    From: brenda kaminski <[email protected]>
    Subject: Re: My Son posted :0)

    Jules,
    This is so beautiful, it tells it all. I am so happy for you. I
    agree with him you are fantastic.

    Julie Phillips <[email protected]> wrote:
    I had to share with you all!! I'm so happy. My Son posted the below to

    another group I belong to (michigansearching.com) he must have joined
    last night. I don't think you could find a happier Bmother right
    now--defiantly on cloud 9!
    Jules P



    Hi all,
    this is my first post. I have been in contact with my bmom (Julie
    Phillips) since 4/1/03 she has been known to post here and I am sure
    that she will see this. She is great, I couldnt have a better person
    to have as a birth mother. I love her dearly, she is sweet, kind,
    caring and very loving. The reason why I am doing this post, is
    because the problem that I am having is, that I cant tell her I love
    her, I can send it in and email and in a card. I want to tell her
    but every time I want to, I freeze up and cant do it. What I was
    wondering is that if any other adoptees that have reuntied have had
    the same problem?
    thanks
    Ron


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    iso b/sib 08/15/63 in ca.

    found 11/20/02



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    Message: 20
    Date: Fri, 14 Nov 2003 10:23:49 -0800 (PST)
    From: Kathy Massa <[email protected]>
    Subject: Re: Digest Number 3108

    HI All,

    My name is Kathy and I was adopted in Hinsdale, IL, in
    1948. My adoptive parents are wonderful, supportive
    folks, and I am an adoptee who has no real need to
    "complete" myself -- I am already complete. But I
    recognize that there may be others in my birth family
    who have a need to find out what happened to me for
    medical or psychological reasons and so have put my
    name into the registries to allow others to find me.

    Birthmoms and Birthdads - be assured that most of us
    born after WWII and placed in adoptive homes went to
    people who loved and cared for us. My adoptive mother
    carried me home from the attorney's office on a
    pillow. My earliest memories of being told I was
    adopted were that they went into a room full of cribs
    and picked out the prettiest baby - me. They are 85
    years old now and still make every wedding and
    graduation I am a part of. I have 2 beautiful sons
    and 4 adorable grandchildren. It's been a VERY good
    life.

    Good luck and God bless to you all.

    Kathy


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    Message: 21
    Date: Fri, 14 Nov 2003 14:01:53 -0500
    From: "Julie Phillips" <[email protected]>
    Subject: RE: My Son posted-Brenda

    Thank You (blushing)



    Jules,
    This is so beautiful, it tells it all. I am so happy for you. I
    agree with him you are fantastic.









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