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[Tai]

"Tony Miller" <[email protected]> wrote in message
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Have you been to a good endocrinologist? You might be testosterone deficient.

I think it's far more likely she's "caring husband" deficient.

Tai

[Tony Miller]

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On Thu, 2 Sep 2004 12:08:31 +1000, Tai
<[email protected]> wrote:

"Tony Miller" <[email protected]> wrote in message news:[email protected]

Have you been to a good endocrinologist? You might be testosterone deficient.

I think it's far more likely she's "caring husband" deficient.

I have a real problem with this "caring husband" deficit stuff. I just
can't sympathize. I guess it must be a guy thing.

-Tony

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Tony Miller <[email protected]> writes:

On Thu, 2 Sep 2004 12:08:31 +1000, Tai <[email protected]> wrote:

"Tony Miller" <[email protected]> wrote in message news:[email protected]

Have you been to a good endocrinologist? You might be testosterone deficient.

I think it's far more likely she's "caring husband" deficient.

I have a real problem with this "caring husband" deficit stuff. I just can't sympathize. I guess it must be a guy thing.

Or maybe just a "Tony" thing.

[Amy Lou]

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"Doug Anderson" <[email protected]> wrote in message
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Tony Miller <[email protected]> writes:

On Thu, 2 Sep 2004 12:08:31 +1000, Tai <[email protected]> wrote:

"Tony Miller" <[email protected]> wrote in message news:[email protected]>> Have you been to a good endocrinologist? You might be testosterone> deficient.> I think it's far more likely she's "caring husband" deficient.

I have a real problem with this "caring husband" deficit stuff. I just can't sympathize. I guess it must be a guy thing.

Or maybe just a "Tony" thing.

I think Tony has a point. Some men do not want to be known as 'caring'. They
want to have an image of 'big tough man'.

Amy

[Tony Miller]

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On 01 Sep 2004 20:23:16 -0700, Doug Anderson
<[email protected]> wrote:

Tony Miller <[email protected]> writes:

On Thu, 2 Sep 2004 12:08:31 +1000, Tai <[email protected]> wrote:

"Tony Miller" <[email protected]> wrote in message news:[email protected]>> Have you been to a good endocrinologist? You might be testosterone> deficient.> I think it's far more likely she's "caring husband" deficient.

I have a real problem with this "caring husband" deficit stuff. I just can't sympathize. I guess it must be a guy thing.

Or maybe just a "Tony" thing.

I said "guy thing". I guess that doesn't apply to you.

-Tony

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"Tony Miller" <[email protected]> wrote in message
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I have a real problem with this "caring husband" deficit stuff. I just can't sympathize. I guess it must be a guy thing.

No, I think it's a Tony thing.

Ted.

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"Doug Anderson" <[email protected]> wrote in message
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Or maybe just a "Tony" thing.

LOL! I shoulda read ahead.

Ted

[Tai]

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Tony Miller wrote:

She's feeling lonely and ignored. I believe he is too. Something has to change.

Yes, they both have to make an effort to do what would make the other feel
loved - at the same time. I think they might keep missing each other some
how. It's very hard to tell what Amy's husband might be doing because
whatever it is (if there's anything) Amy doesn't seem to recognise it, or
perhaps not the intention behind it.

Tai

[Tony Miller]

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On Thu, 2 Sep 2004 08:27:24 -0500, Seeker
<[email protected]> wrote:

"Tony Miller" <[email protected]> wrote in message news:[email protected]

I have a real problem with this "caring husband" deficit stuff. I just can't sympathize. I guess it must be a guy thing.

No, I think it's a Tony thing.

No Ted, it's a guy thing. That's probably why you don't get it.

-Tony

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"Tony Miller" <[email protected]> wrote in message
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No Ted, it's a guy thing. That's probably why you don't get it.

I thought you were the one who didn't get it. I do. (Doesn't mean I'm
*good* at it.)

Ted

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"Tony Miller" <[email protected]> wrote in message
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And I was talking about why I don't "get it". My statement was germaine to the conversation. Please do try and keep up.

And ruin the fun of the confusion? Nah.
I'll try better...

Ted

[Doug Anderson]

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"Amy Lou" <[email protected]> writes:

"Doug Anderson" <[email protected]> wrote in message news:[email protected]ni-berlin.de...

Tony Miller <[email protected]> writes:

On Thu, 2 Sep 2004 12:08:31 +1000, Tai <[email protected]> wrote: > > "Tony Miller" <[email protected]> wrote in message > news:[email protected] > >> >> Have you been to a good endocrinologist? You might be testosterone >> deficient. >> > > I think it's far more likely she's "caring husband" deficient. I have a real problem with this "caring husband" deficit stuff. I just can't sympathize. I guess it must be a guy thing.

Or maybe just a "Tony" thing.

I think Tony has a point. Some men do not want to be known as 'caring'. They want to have an image of 'big tough man'.

Well, I still wouldn't call it a "guy" thing, since I seem to know
plenty of men who are happy to be caring. Though there may be men who
are so insecure in their self image than they are afraid to appear to
be caring. Unfortunate if that is the case.

Doug

[Tony Miller]

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On 02 Sep 2004 15:05:20 -0700, Doug Anderson
<[email protected]> wrote:

"Amy Lou" <[email protected]> writes:

"Doug Anderson" <[email protected]> wrote in message news:[email protected]

Tony Miller <[email protected]> writes: > On Thu, 2 Sep 2004 12:08:31 +1000, Tai > <[email protected]> wrote: > > > > "Tony Miller" <[email protected]> wrote in message > > news:[email protected] > > > >> > >> Have you been to a good endocrinologist? You might be testosterone > >> deficient. > >> > > > > I think it's far more likely she's "caring husband" deficient. > > I have a real problem with this "caring husband" deficit stuff. I just > can't sympathize. I guess it must be a guy thing. Or maybe just a "Tony" thing.

I think Tony has a point. Some men do not want to be known as 'caring'. They want to have an image of 'big tough man'.

Well, I still wouldn't call it a "guy" thing, since I seem to know plenty of men who are happy to be caring. Though there may be men who

Or they could just be girly men.

are so insecure in their self image than they are afraid to appear to be caring. Unfortunate if that is the case.

Or don't want to look like a girly man.

-Tony

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to fertilize your lawn!"
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[Michael]

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in article [email protected], Tony Miller at
[email protected] wrote on 9/2/04 7:10 PM:

On 02 Sep 2004 15:05:20 -0700, Doug Anderson <[email protected]> wrote:

"Amy Lou" <[email protected]> writes:

"Doug Anderson" <[email protected]> wrote in message news:[email protected]> Tony Miller <[email protected]> writes:>>> On Thu, 2 Sep 2004 12:08:31 +1000, Tai>> <[email protected]> wrote:>>>>>> "Tony Miller" <[email protected]> wrote in message>>> news:[email protected]>>> >>>>>>>> Have you been to a good endocrinologist? You might be testosterone>>>> deficient.>>>>>>>>>> I think it's far more likely she's "caring husband" deficient.>>>> I have a real problem with this "caring husband" deficit stuff. I just>> can't sympathize. I guess it must be a guy thing.>> Or maybe just a "Tony" thing. I think Tony has a point. Some men do not want to be known as 'caring'. They want to have an image of 'big tough man'.

Well, I still wouldn't call it a "guy" thing, since I seem to know plenty of men who are happy to be caring. Though there may be men who

Or they could just be girly men.

are so insecure in their self image than they are afraid to appear to be caring. Unfortunate if that is the case.

Or don't want to look like a girly man. -Tony

I'm sure it takes one to know one, princess.

[Amy Lou]

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"Tony Miller" <[email protected]> >

That's right. He's a guy. His job is to teach self reliance and self sufficiency.

What if I wasn't around anymore and he had to be both mother and father? Do
you think your average bloke would try to be more 'maternal' in those
circumstances?

Amy