>Subject: Re: Sri Lankan Adoptee Losing Hope.From: patrice68@bigpond.com.au (Dian)Date: 1/7/04 1:48 AM Eastern Standard TimeMessage-id: <c599139c.0401062248.6dbe3836@posting.google.com>

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And while both relinquishment and adoption are two different aspect ofthe adoption process they are by no means mutually expclusive. Like Isaid you can't be adopted until you are relinquished. They go hand inhand. It's the way the process of adoption works. So the win win winyou believe adoption is is founded entirely on loss.

So is is organ donation, dimwit.

Dad

> So the win win winyou believe adoption is is founded entirely on loss.

Di

So is is organ donation, dimwit.Dad

There ya go. Another fine example. A bad event is rarely the foundation for all
future events.




P2P

adoptadad@aol.com (AdoptaDad) wrote in message news:<20040107064005.09719.00002368@mb-m17.aol.com>...Subject: Re: Sri Lankan Adoptee Losing Hope.From: patrice68@bigpond.com.au (Dian)Date: 1/7/04 1:48 AM Eastern Standard TimeMessage-id: <c599139c.0401062248.6dbe3836@posting.google.com> < snip >And while both relinquishment and adoption are two different aspect ofthe adoption process they are by no means mutually expclusive. Like Isaid you can't be adopted until you are relinquished. They go hand inhand. It's the way the process of adoption works. So the win win winyou believe adoption is is founded entirely on loss. So is is organ donation, dimwit. Dad

Yes Mr Flacid, you're correct. Someone had to die so that another
person could live. Parallels adoption perfectly. Adopters get their
childlessness cured at another families expense. Thanks for the
reminder.

Di

>Adopters get theirchildlessness cured at another families expense. Thanks for thereminder.Di


And you get your to unleash your mean spiritedness, your bitterness, your
persecution complex and your cruel streak at the expense of many who had
nothing whatsoever to do with the "V" tattooed on your forehead.


P2P

palms2pines@aol.comh8spam (Palms2pines) wrote in message news:<20040107230658.15365.00002779@mb-m03.aol.com>...Adopters get theirchildlessness cured at another families expense. Thanks for thereminder.Di And you get your to unleash your mean spiritedness, your bitterness, your persecution complex and your cruel streak at the expense of many who had nothing whatsoever to do with the "V" tattooed on your forehead. P2P

Really, what's mean about calling a spade a spade? I'm not into make believe.

Di

>Subject: Re: Sri Lankan Adoptee Losing Hope.From: patrice68@bigpond.com.au (Dian)Date: 1/8/04 6:39 AM Pacific Standard TimeMessage-id: <c599139c.0401080639.40ec6883@posting.google.com>palms2pines@aol.comh8spam (Palms2pines) wrote in messagenews:<20040107230658.15365.00002779@mb-m03.aol.com>...Adopters get theirchildlessness cured at another families expense. Thanks for thereminder.Di And you get your to unleash your mean spiritedness, your bitterness, your persecution complex and your cruel streak at the expense of many who had nothing whatsoever to do with the "V" tattooed on your forehead. P2PReally, what's mean about calling a spade a spade? I'm not into make believe.Di

You're not calling a spade a spade.
You a blaming others that had nothing to do with your son's relinquishment.





Kathy
"To err is human; to forgive, divine."

>Really, what's mean about calling a spade a spade? I'm not into make believe.Di

There is nothing at all wrong with calling a spade a spade, Di. There is
something foolish, IMO, about directing boatloads of anger at spoons and rakes
and hammers and other tools completely unrelated to your hated spades.


P2P

>Subject: Re: Sri Lankan Adoptee Losing Hope.From: palms2pines@aol.comh8spam (Palms2pines)Date: 1/8/04 11:58 AM Pacific Standard TimeMessage-id: <20040108145830.07996.00002440@mb-m16.aol.com>Really, what's mean about calling a spade a spade? I'm not into makebelieve.DiThere is nothing at all wrong with calling a spade a spade, Di. There issomething foolish, IMO, about directing boatloads of anger at spoons andrakesand hammers and other tools completely unrelated to your hated spades.P2P

LOL...well said.

Kathy
"To err is human; to forgive, divine."

meagan787@aol.comsthesun (Kathy) wrote in message news:<20040108113141.03799.00002851@mb-m07.aol.com>...Subject: Re: Sri Lankan Adoptee Losing Hope.From: patrice68@bigpond.com.au (Dian)Date: 1/8/04 6:39 AM Pacific Standard TimeMessage-id: <c599139c.0401080639.40ec6883@posting.google.com>palms2pines@aol.comh8spam (Palms2pines) wrote in messagenews:<20040107230658.15365.00002779@mb-m03.aol.com>... >Adopters get their >childlessness cured at another families expense. Thanks for the >reminder. > >Di And you get your to unleash your mean spiritedness, your bitterness, your persecution complex and your cruel streak at the expense of many who had nothing whatsoever to do with the "V" tattooed on your forehead. P2PReally, what's mean about calling a spade a spade? I'm not into make believe.Di You're not calling a spade a spade. You a blaming others that had nothing to do with your son's relinquishment.
Stating a fact has nothing to do with my own experience. Unlike you
I'm not tethered by blinkers. I can see it for what it is.

Di Kathy "To err is human; to forgive, divine."

in article c599139c.0401082338.1c69380d@posting.google.com, Dian at
patrice68@bigpond.com.au wrote on 9/1/04 7:38 am:
meagan787@aol.comsthesun (Kathy) wrote in message news:<20040108113141.03799.00002851@mb-m07.aol.com>... Subject: Re: Sri Lankan Adoptee Losing Hope. From: patrice68@bigpond.com.au (Dian) Date: 1/8/04 6:39 AM Pacific Standard Time Message-id: <c599139c.0401080639.40ec6883@posting.google.com> palms2pines@aol.comh8spam (Palms2pines) wrote in message news:<20040107230658.15365.00002779@mb-m03.aol.com>... Adopters get their childlessness cured at another families expense. Thanks for the reminder.>> Di>>>> And you get your to unleash your mean spiritedness, your bitterness, your> persecution complex and your cruel streak at the expense of many who had> nothing whatsoever to do with the "V" tattooed on your forehead.>>> P2P> Really, what's mean about calling a spade a spade? I'm not into make believe. Di

You're not calling a spade a spade. You a blaming others that had nothing to do with your son's relinquishment.

Stating a fact has nothing to do with my own experience. Unlike you I'm not tethered by blinkers.


Tethered by blinkers? How does that work then Di?

I can see it for what it is.


No, I reckon you're blinded by your tethers Di.




Robin

On 8 Jan 2004 23:38:33 -0800, patrice68@bigpond.com.au (Dian) wrote:
Really, what's mean about calling a spade a spade? I'm not into make believe.Di You're not calling a spade a spade. You a blaming others that had nothing to do with your son's relinquishment.Stating a fact has nothing to do with my own experience. Unlike youI'm not tethered by blinkers. I can see it for what it is.


Shhhhh Helen did not want her to know about the blinkers.


Jackie

"Jackie" <forgetit@me.com> wrote in message
news:4oatvvkdro6t0pou8a5cggf206jggp571l@4ax.com... On 8 Jan 2004 23:38:33 -0800, patrice68@bigpond.com.au (Dian) wrote: >Really, what's mean about calling a spade a spade? I'm not into make
believe. > >Di You're not calling a spade a spade. You a blaming others that had nothing to do with your son's
relinquishment.Stating a fact has nothing to do with my own experience. Unlike youI'm not tethered by blinkers. I can see it for what it is. Shhhhh Helen did not want her to know about the blinkers.

What are you talking about NOW? You are really in danger of losing it,
Jackie.

Helen

Jackie