jn46036
04-07-2006, 06:28 AM
My Older two children have 4 siblings, ages 6, 5, 3, and 2. There Dad has warrants for Felony Child Battery in two counties, and there mother has a warrant in this county and is on probation. He filed for emergency custody from her after signing over guardianship to me. She doesn't want them and can't stay sober long enough to take care of them. She too signed over guardianship. He has made no attempt to get them since he was arrested the last time. (beginning of the year). All of the children have been raised by me on and off there entire life. What do I do when one of them decides to be a parent again and takes them back to the abuse and insanity. The last time he came and got them he didn't even take the oldest one to school. Indiana says she doesn't have to go to school until she is 7, so he broke no law there. He has a no contact order and restraining order from our older two children, but there is no order protecting the younger 4 children. When he is with them he is always drunk, and if the children disturb him he beats them like crazy. I don't want him to get the kids back, but I am not there mother. CPS knows they live here, and has said this is a good place for them. All of the children call me mom and have since birth, and there mother as dysfunctional as she is, agrees that this is what is best for them, she doesn't want them to grow up like she did. My biggest fear is him coming to get the children. :(
