Lady Di
11-23-2003, 04:05 PM
There are 4 messages in this issue.
Topics in this digest:
1. Re: File - Before Hiring A Paid Searcher or CI
From: "lisas_mom2" <susansam@prodigy.net>
2. yes
From: steve burke <stbjr2000@yahoo.com>
3. Re: repost
From: Robert McCullough <jnkjnky@yahoo.com>
4. Roll Call
From: "bren622003" <bj@wightman.on.ca>
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Message: 1
Date: Sun, 23 Nov 2003 13:32:42 -0000
From: "lisas_mom2" <susansam@prodigy.net>
Subject: Re: File - Before Hiring A Paid Searcher or CI
Also make sure whoever you hire is in the state you are searching and
that the fee they quote includes "leg work". If you have the name of
your birthmother or father, you don't need to pay anyone. Volunteers
can help you.
Hugs
Susan
--- In AngelsLostInAdoption@yahoogroups.com,
AngelsLostInAdoption@yahoogroups.com wrote: If you are considering hiring a paid searcher or a CI, first: 1. Find out if your state has a Confidential Intermediary System 2. If you do hire a searcher, make certain that the person you hire is a no-find/no-fee searcher. Get something in writing. Also, ask the company if they can obtain original birth certificates/or have access to a birth index and provide you with BC numbers...you don't
need to know their "sources" but if the company states they have no
access to OBC's or a birth index for the state you are searching in, than they are not the company you want to hire. 3. Check paid searcher references very carefully. Contact the
Better Business Bureau in the area the paid searcher comes from and
ask the BBB how many complaints are registered against that
person/business. 4. If you are unsure of how to check references, email
AngelsLostInAdoption-Owner@yahoogroups.com and the owner/moderators,
will check the paid searcher and get back to you. 5. Never go with a pay first, find second company. The individual
paid searcher might need to have his/her expenses met, but never give
the entire fee up front. If a searcher asks for that, run away.
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Message: 2
Date: Sun, 23 Nov 2003 01:30:28 -0800 (PST)
From: steve burke <stbjr2000@yahoo.com>
Subject: yes
yes i did many times lol
joan <joan1b@cox.net> wrote:
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I got it, J Joan
-----Original Message-----
From: eugene carpenter [mailto:gec195025159@yahoo.com]
Sent: Friday, November 21, 2003 8:37 PM
To: AngelsLostInAdoption@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [AngelsLostInAdoption] Testing
Where is everyone??? If you get this email please let
me know.
Thank You
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Message: 3
Date: Sun, 23 Nov 2003 00:41:54 -0800 (PST)
From: Robert McCullough <jnkjnky@yahoo.com>
Subject: Re: repost
Fayth , I know just the person you need to talk to, her name is Nancy
Peuraharju her e-mail addy nancy.peuraharju@kolumbus.fi she is
located
in finland , she works for angels lost in adoption , she is a great
gal
, she does medical emergencys. Good Luck Sarah
baby62168@aol.com wrote:Hi. I have been searching for 7 years. I have
very little information to go on though I have followed all of the
traditional search steps. My biggest reason for searching is that I
really
need my medical history. My 11 year old daughter is chronically ill
and
it may shed some light on some of her problems. She has Chronic Lyme
disease, fibromyalgia, CFIDS, heart and lung problems, and
hypoglycemia.
She spent six months in a wheelchair last year due to these
conditions.
Now they have found problems with her spine for which they have no
answers.
I have plenty of other reasons for wanting to find but that is my
first
priority.
I was born 6/21/68 in Philadelphia, PA. I was born at approximately
1:30am and was 8lbs 1 oz. My adoption was handled privately by
attorney
Marvin Lundy. I was adopted by a Jewish couple from NJ. My a-mom was a
school teacher. My non-id states that my b-mother was single and 24 at
the time of my birth. My b-grandfather died at age 59. My b-father was
not listed. My a-mom remembers something being mentioned about
Bristol.
Possibly that my b-mom was from there? I was dropped off to my
a-parents
in the back parking lot of a hotel. My a-parents were asked to pay
cash
in advance of my delivery. My a-mom was told that my b-father was a
truck driver and that my b-mom's family did not approve of the
relationship. How much of what she was told being true,. I do not
know. My
b-mother's dob and social security number was not in the
paperwork...only
that she was 24. When the court searcher sent to the last known
address,
the letter was returned. She tried to obtain her social security info
and
was told that my b-mom was not in their records as having worked for
the last 3 years and therefore couldn't be traced that way.
I have registered with all of the pa registies as well as the wwr and
isrr. I have a copy of my adoption decree (which simply states that my
adoption was finalized on 7/25/69). I have posted anyplace I have
found
on the net. I cannot afford to hire a searcher. I have very little
time
to put into searching as caring for my daughter takes so much of my
time. Anyone that has any further ideas, please share them. I would
really
appreciate any help.
Thanks
Fayth
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Message: 4
Date: Sun, 23 Nov 2003 14:45:55 -0000
From: "bren622003" <bj@wightman.on.ca>
Subject: Roll Call
And we'll do it again :-)
BM ISO BDaughter
February 26th 1979
Kitchener, Ontario, Canada
Finalized: October 1981
Judge Fair
BName: Kerri (Ann)
Notes:
I have been told that the A Parents kept her first name, and that she
is attending post secondary school in another province. Information
was obtained while sending important medical information through CAS.
That's all I know, thanks folks...you're the greatest!
Brenda J in Ontario
*The most sublime act is to set another before you.* ~ Blake
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Topics in this digest:
1. Re: File - Before Hiring A Paid Searcher or CI
From: "lisas_mom2" <susansam@prodigy.net>
2. yes
From: steve burke <stbjr2000@yahoo.com>
3. Re: repost
From: Robert McCullough <jnkjnky@yahoo.com>
4. Roll Call
From: "bren622003" <bj@wightman.on.ca>
__________________________________________________ ______________________
__________________________________________________ ______________________
Message: 1
Date: Sun, 23 Nov 2003 13:32:42 -0000
From: "lisas_mom2" <susansam@prodigy.net>
Subject: Re: File - Before Hiring A Paid Searcher or CI
Also make sure whoever you hire is in the state you are searching and
that the fee they quote includes "leg work". If you have the name of
your birthmother or father, you don't need to pay anyone. Volunteers
can help you.
Hugs
Susan
--- In AngelsLostInAdoption@yahoogroups.com,
AngelsLostInAdoption@yahoogroups.com wrote: If you are considering hiring a paid searcher or a CI, first: 1. Find out if your state has a Confidential Intermediary System 2. If you do hire a searcher, make certain that the person you hire is a no-find/no-fee searcher. Get something in writing. Also, ask the company if they can obtain original birth certificates/or have access to a birth index and provide you with BC numbers...you don't
need to know their "sources" but if the company states they have no
access to OBC's or a birth index for the state you are searching in, than they are not the company you want to hire. 3. Check paid searcher references very carefully. Contact the
Better Business Bureau in the area the paid searcher comes from and
ask the BBB how many complaints are registered against that
person/business. 4. If you are unsure of how to check references, email
AngelsLostInAdoption-Owner@yahoogroups.com and the owner/moderators,
will check the paid searcher and get back to you. 5. Never go with a pay first, find second company. The individual
paid searcher might need to have his/her expenses met, but never give
the entire fee up front. If a searcher asks for that, run away.
__________________________________________________ ______________________
__________________________________________________ ______________________
Message: 2
Date: Sun, 23 Nov 2003 01:30:28 -0800 (PST)
From: steve burke <stbjr2000@yahoo.com>
Subject: yes
yes i did many times lol
joan <joan1b@cox.net> wrote:
v\:* {behavior:url(#default#VML);}o\:*
{behavior:url(#default#VML);}w\:* {behavior:url(#default#VML);}.shape
{behavior:url(#default#VML);}
I got it, J Joan
-----Original Message-----
From: eugene carpenter [mailto:gec195025159@yahoo.com]
Sent: Friday, November 21, 2003 8:37 PM
To: AngelsLostInAdoption@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [AngelsLostInAdoption] Testing
Where is everyone??? If you get this email please let
me know.
Thank You
__________________________________
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Message: 3
Date: Sun, 23 Nov 2003 00:41:54 -0800 (PST)
From: Robert McCullough <jnkjnky@yahoo.com>
Subject: Re: repost
Fayth , I know just the person you need to talk to, her name is Nancy
Peuraharju her e-mail addy nancy.peuraharju@kolumbus.fi she is
located
in finland , she works for angels lost in adoption , she is a great
gal
, she does medical emergencys. Good Luck Sarah
baby62168@aol.com wrote:Hi. I have been searching for 7 years. I have
very little information to go on though I have followed all of the
traditional search steps. My biggest reason for searching is that I
really
need my medical history. My 11 year old daughter is chronically ill
and
it may shed some light on some of her problems. She has Chronic Lyme
disease, fibromyalgia, CFIDS, heart and lung problems, and
hypoglycemia.
She spent six months in a wheelchair last year due to these
conditions.
Now they have found problems with her spine for which they have no
answers.
I have plenty of other reasons for wanting to find but that is my
first
priority.
I was born 6/21/68 in Philadelphia, PA. I was born at approximately
1:30am and was 8lbs 1 oz. My adoption was handled privately by
attorney
Marvin Lundy. I was adopted by a Jewish couple from NJ. My a-mom was a
school teacher. My non-id states that my b-mother was single and 24 at
the time of my birth. My b-grandfather died at age 59. My b-father was
not listed. My a-mom remembers something being mentioned about
Bristol.
Possibly that my b-mom was from there? I was dropped off to my
a-parents
in the back parking lot of a hotel. My a-parents were asked to pay
cash
in advance of my delivery. My a-mom was told that my b-father was a
truck driver and that my b-mom's family did not approve of the
relationship. How much of what she was told being true,. I do not
know. My
b-mother's dob and social security number was not in the
paperwork...only
that she was 24. When the court searcher sent to the last known
address,
the letter was returned. She tried to obtain her social security info
and
was told that my b-mom was not in their records as having worked for
the last 3 years and therefore couldn't be traced that way.
I have registered with all of the pa registies as well as the wwr and
isrr. I have a copy of my adoption decree (which simply states that my
adoption was finalized on 7/25/69). I have posted anyplace I have
found
on the net. I cannot afford to hire a searcher. I have very little
time
to put into searching as caring for my daughter takes so much of my
time. Anyone that has any further ideas, please share them. I would
really
appreciate any help.
Thanks
Fayth
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Message: 4
Date: Sun, 23 Nov 2003 14:45:55 -0000
From: "bren622003" <bj@wightman.on.ca>
Subject: Roll Call
And we'll do it again :-)
BM ISO BDaughter
February 26th 1979
Kitchener, Ontario, Canada
Finalized: October 1981
Judge Fair
BName: Kerri (Ann)
Notes:
I have been told that the A Parents kept her first name, and that she
is attending post secondary school in another province. Information
was obtained while sending important medical information through CAS.
That's all I know, thanks folks...you're the greatest!
Brenda J in Ontario
*The most sublime act is to set another before you.* ~ Blake
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