On Sun, 2 Nov 2003 10:41:35 -0700 (MST), badaii@webtv.net (Windforest)
wrote:
I would just like to add a small correction.Jackie was not asked to be a go between. The poster felt that bothJackie and the bm could help each other.

Help me with what?

What was I having trouble with at that time?

I would really like to know..
It was an offering ofcompassion that came back to really bite the poster.

Compassion for me? I am not in the closet..

I don't understand..

She was not askedto be the go between, she assumed that on her own.

I was asked to relay messages.. Hmmmm

Funny I always thought that this was being a go between.

That what reallystinks about the whole thing.Windforest


Something stinks about this whole thing that is for sure.

Maybe its the gossip... Hmmmm



Jackie

>Subject: Re: Just for the recordFrom: Jackie jdajda@newsguy.comDate: 11/3/2003Funny I always thought that this was being a go between.
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No remember, we were both in agreement that it would not be right of you to
break my birthmothers confidence and tell me things she said, or something like
that.

I did ask you to ask about medical information when Dr's were drilling me if
any family members had any bruising problems after I wrote my sister and did
not get a response. Ends up she was at my birthmoms visiting, go figure,
that's my freaking luck.

Kathy J

On 04 Nov 2003 00:16:48 GMT, tmnkat@aol.com (Tm n Kat) wrote:
Subject: Re: Just for the recordFrom: Jackie jdajda@newsguy.comDate: 11/3/2003Funny I always thought that this was being a go between.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~No remember, we were both in agreement that it would not be right of you tobreak my birthmothers confidence and tell me things she said, or something likethat.

Yes..
I did ask you to ask about medical information when Dr's were drilling me ifany family members had any bruising problems after I wrote my sister and didnot get a response. Ends up she was at my birthmoms visiting, go figure,that's my freaking luck.


I learned my lesson.. Search angels comes into my thinking here..
Reunion and someone volunteering to help..
IMO there is a cost to this.. The cost is the volunteer (some) gets to
put in his or her two cents. That is the payment..
Gets to influence someone because they are obliged..
Its a place of power where there should not be one..

That is when I concluded that reunion should be between two people.
And I am also thinking of reunion between siblings..
Each is still a one on one proposition..

I learn.

Jackie

"Tm n Kat" <tmnkat@aol.com> wrote in message
news:20031103191648.16460.00000069@mb-m24.aol.com...Subject: Re: Just for the recordFrom: Jackie jdajda@newsguy.comDate: 11/3/2003Funny I always thought that this was being a go between. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ No remember, we were both in agreement that it would not be right of you
to break my birthmothers confidence and tell me things she said, or something
like that.

Yet that is what she did when she posted it to the ng.

Kathy 1