>Subject: Re: Just for the recordFrom: "kat" katlat24@hotmail.comDate: 11/3/03 10:33 AM Mountain Standard TimeMessage-id: <bo5ohi$18ehsk$1@ID-203097.news.uni-berlin.de>"GR" <gragain@earthlink.net> wrote in messagenews:diuaqvci931t4mrtk448lkq0rtr7tgkcru@4ax .com... On 02 Nov 2003 07:13:03 GMT, Marla, what's your damage here? GRSo do you believe everybody has "damage" (yourself included I presume).While it is true that one's experiences influence what they are or aren'tinterested in exploring or the views they might hold on a particular subjectI hesitate to label it all as "damage".

I'm damaged by adoption. Just ask Lori C.

"GR" <gragain@earthlink.net> wrote in message
news:diuaqvci931t4mrtk448lkq0rtr7tgkcru@4ax.com... On 02 Nov 2003 07:13:03 GMT,

Marla, what's your damage here? GR

So do you believe everybody has "damage" (yourself included I presume).
While it is true that one's experiences influence what they are or aren't
interested in exploring or the views they might hold on a particular subject
I hesitate to label it all as "damage".

Kathy 1

"kat" <katlat24@hotmail.com> wrote in message news:<bo5sff$18i44e$1@ID-203097.news.uni-berlin.de>... "LilMtnCbn" <lilmtncbn@aol.comnospam> wrote in message news:20031103093148.12560.00000099@mb-m06.aol.com...Subject: Re: Just for the recordFrom: "kat" katlat24@hotmail.comDate: 11/3/03 10:33 AM Mountain Standard TimeMessage-id: <bo5ohi$18ehsk$1@ID-203097.news.uni-berlin.de>"GR" <gragain@earthlink.net> wrote in messagenews:diuaqvci931t4mrtk448lkq0rtr7tgkcru@4ax .com...> On 02 Nov 2003 07:13:03 GMT,> Marla, what's your damage here?>> GR>So do you believe everybody has "damage" (yourself included I presume).While it is true that one's experiences influence what they are or aren'tinterested in exploring or the views they might hold on a particular subjectI hesitate to label it all as "damage". I'm damaged by adoption. Just ask Lori C. Oops I forgot <slapping forehead> No wonder alt. a is considered the scariest ng. Just a bunch of damaged people posting here attacking people at random and for no reason; driving (less damaged?) people from our midst ;)



LOL.
Why do I find that so amusing?
It must be the damage !


Rh. Kathy 1

"LilMtnCbn" <lilmtncbn@aol.comnospam> wrote in message
news:20031103093148.12560.00000099@mb-m06.aol.com...Subject: Re: Just for the recordFrom: "kat" katlat24@hotmail.comDate: 11/3/03 10:33 AM Mountain Standard TimeMessage-id: <bo5ohi$18ehsk$1@ID-203097.news.uni-berlin.de>"GR" <gragain@earthlink.net> wrote in messagenews:diuaqvci931t4mrtk448lkq0rtr7tgkcru@4ax .com... On 02 Nov 2003 07:13:03 GMT, Marla, what's your damage here? GRSo do you believe everybody has "damage" (yourself included I presume).While it is true that one's experiences influence what they are or aren'tinterested in exploring or the views they might hold on a particular
subjectI hesitate to label it all as "damage". I'm damaged by adoption. Just ask Lori C.

Oops I forgot <slapping forehead> No wonder alt. a is considered the
scariest ng. Just a bunch of damaged people posting here attacking people
at random and for no reason; driving (less damaged?) people from our midst
;)

Kathy 1

"kat" <katlat24@hotmail.com> wrote Oops I forgot <slapping forehead> No wonder alt. a is considered the scariest ng. Just a bunch of damaged people posting here attacking people at random and for no reason; driving (less damaged?) people from our midst ;)

But damaging them first, of course, through ACS by association.

Rupa

"kat" <katlat24@hotmail.com> wrote in message news:<bo5sff$18i44e$1@ID-203097.news.uni-berlin.de>... "LilMtnCbn" <lilmtncbn@aol.comnospam> wrote in message news:20031103093148.12560.00000099@mb-m06.aol.com...Subject: Re: Just for the recordFrom: "kat" katlat24@hotmail.comDate: 11/3/03 10:33 AM Mountain Standard TimeMessage-id: <bo5ohi$18ehsk$1@ID-203097.news.uni-berlin.de>"GR" <gragain@earthlink.net> wrote in messagenews:diuaqvci931t4mrtk448lkq0rtr7tgkcru@4ax .com...> On 02 Nov 2003 07:13:03 GMT,> Marla, what's your damage here?>> GR>So do you believe everybody has "damage" (yourself included I presume).While it is true that one's experiences influence what they are or aren'tinterested in exploring or the views they might hold on a particular subjectI hesitate to label it all as "damage". I'm damaged by adoption. Just ask Lori C. Oops I forgot <slapping forehead> No wonder alt. a is considered the scariest ng. Just a bunch of damaged people posting here attacking people at random and for no reason; driving (less damaged?) people from our midst ;) Kathy 1

and only going to meet our birthfamily to pump them for information
and then treat them poorly.

In article <4b23522a.0311031310.2f82d2a0@posting.google.com>, Debbie says..."kat" <katlat24@hotmail.com> wrote in message news:<bo5sff$18i44e$1@ID-203097.news.uni-berlin.de>... "LilMtnCbn" <lilmtncbn@aol.comnospam> wrote in message news:20031103093148.12560.00000099@mb-m06.aol.com... >Subject: Re: Just for the record >From: "kat" katlat24@hotmail.com >Date: 11/3/03 10:33 AM Mountain Standard Time >Message-id: <bo5ohi$18ehsk$1@ID-203097.news.uni-berlin.de> > > >"GR" <gragain@earthlink.net> wrote in message >news:diuaqvci931t4mrtk448lkq0rtr7tgkcru@4ax.com... >> On 02 Nov 2003 07:13:03 GMT, > > >> Marla, what's your damage here? >> >> GR >> > >So do you believe everybody has "damage" (yourself included I presume). >While it is true that one's experiences influence what they are or aren't >interested in exploring or the views they might hold on a particular subject >I hesitate to label it all as "damage". I'm damaged by adoption. Just ask Lori C. Oops I forgot <slapping forehead> No wonder alt. a is considered the scariest ng. Just a bunch of damaged people posting here attacking people at random and for no reason; driving (less damaged?) people from our midst ;) Kathy 1and only going to meet our birthfamily to pump them for informationand then treat them poorly.

<boggle> And here I only asked to get together for coffee. Damnit!

<snicker> ;)

Robyn
Resident Witchypoo & EAC Spellcaster
#1557

With that I have to laugh because it sure does seem like we are thought about
in that way sometimes. Kathy J
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Subject: Re: Just for the recordFrom: aspensky@knology.net (Debbie)Date: 11/3/2003and only going to meet our birthfamily to pump them for informationand then treat them poorly.

On Mon, 3 Nov 2003 09:33:48 -0800, "kat" <katlat24@hotmail.com> wrote:
"GR" <gragain@earthlink.net> wrote in messagenews:diuaqvci931t4mrtk448lkq0rtr7tgkcru@4ax .com... On 02 Nov 2003 07:13:03 GMT, Marla, what's your damage here? GRSo do you believe everybody has "damage" (yourself included I presume).

Yep. I have yet to meet anyone who hasn't got some about something,
myself included - of course.
While it is true that one's experiences influence what they are or aren'tinterested in exploring or the views they might hold on a particular subjectI hesitate to label it all as "damage".

Okay. I don't think that's what I did, but you can interpret it as
you choose to, of course.

I was speaking directly to Marla, asking her that question, because
clearly she's all freaked out and pissed off about something right
now. I like Marla, I always have. I'd like her to tell me what's
going on with *her*. She, of course, may choose to tell me or choose
not to tell me. I think it's okay to ask.

GR

"GR" <gragain@earthlink.net> wrote in message
news:9mdgqv4iqqaald17aqskfma4ccg3h2c34q@4ax.com... On Mon, 3 Nov 2003 09:33:48 -0800, "kat" <katlat24@hotmail.com> wrote:"GR" <gragain@earthlink.net> wrote in messagenews:diuaqvci931t4mrtk448lkq0rtr7tgkcru@4ax .com... On 02 Nov 2003 07:13:03 GMT, Marla, what's your damage here? GRSo do you believe everybody has "damage" (yourself included I presume). Yep. I have yet to meet anyone who hasn't got some about something, myself included - of course.While it is true that one's experiences influence what they are or aren'tinterested in exploring or the views they might hold on a particular
subjectI hesitate to label it all as "damage". Okay. I don't think that's what I did, but you can interpret it as you choose to, of course. I was speaking directly to Marla, asking her that question,


Yep and had you not wanted anyone else to comment on the question you would
have asked her in email.

because clearly she's all freaked out and pissed off about something right now.

I like Marla, I always have. I'd like her to tell me what's going on with *her*. She, of course, may choose to tell me or choose not to tell me. I think it's okay to ask.

Sure it is and when the question is asked on a ng there are bound to be
others who will comment on the question.

Kathy 1 GR

On Wed, 5 Nov 2003 17:30:39 -0800, "kat" <katlat24@hotmail.com> wrote:
"GR" <gragain@earthlink.net> wrote in messagenews:9mdgqv4iqqaald17aqskfma4ccg3h2c34q@4ax .com... On Mon, 3 Nov 2003 09:33:48 -0800, "kat" <katlat24@hotmail.com> wrote:"GR" <gragain@earthlink.net> wrote in messagenews:diuaqvci931t4mrtk448lkq0rtr7tgkcru@4ax .com...> On 02 Nov 2003 07:13:03 GMT,> Marla, what's your damage here?>> GR>So do you believe everybody has "damage" (yourself included I presume). Yep. I have yet to meet anyone who hasn't got some about something, myself included - of course.While it is true that one's experiences influence what they are or aren'tinterested in exploring or the views they might hold on a particularsubjectI hesitate to label it all as "damage". Okay. I don't think that's what I did, but you can interpret it as you choose to, of course. I was speaking directly to Marla, asking her that question,
Yep and had you not wanted anyone else to comment on the question you wouldhave asked her in email.

Not wanted anyone else to comment? Odd interpretation. Clearly that
was not my intention, nor was it my preference. As you will no doubt
recall (and can see quoted above) I responded to your response,
clearly stating that you could interpret my question to Marla in
whatever way you chose to, though I believed you had misinterpreted it
(and still believe that). I then went on to clarify, since it
appeared to be unclear to you, why I had asked Marla the question in
the first place.
because clearly she's all freaked out and pissed off about something right now.
I like Marla, I always have. I'd like her to tell me what's going on with *her*. She, of course, may choose to tell me or choose not to tell me. I think it's okay to ask.Sure it is and when the question is asked on a ng there are bound to beothers who will comment on the question.

That's not actually in question, nor was it ever in question. I hope
this additional response has cleared all that up for you. Unless, of
course, you chose your response not because you believed I was
disallowing others' responses, but because you felt like twisting it
to give me ****. Always an option, my dear, but hardly the most
opaque of moves.

GR