In article <bo2s4r$17ituk$1@ID-203097.news.uni-berlin.de>, kat says...
snipDespite Robyn's fustration at not getting the information she seeks, she hasat no time come across as *only* wanting information from her bmother andto not actually have a relationship with her. She has *repeatedly* statedthat she has forgone attempts to get that information *because* she desiresa relationship with her bmother. How you and Jackie see that as "comingacross here" as only wanting to get information and not have a relationshipwith her bmother is strange considering all the evidence to the contrary.

Thanks, Kathy - You're exactly right. I have been spending almost two years
writing my bmom every two months in the hope of building a relationship with her
(mind you, I've heard from her only 3 times in the time period). This whole
situation that Jackie is going on about and my "attitude" happened right before
I started working on developing this relationship. Apparently she'd rather take
me to task over two year old posts rather than focus on anything I've posted
since. Doesn't make much sense to me.

Robyn
Resident Witchypoo & EAC Spellcaster
#1557

>Subject: Re: Just for the recordFrom: Robibnikoff nospam@newsranger.comDate: 11/2/03 5:38 AM Pacific Standard TimeMessage-id: <KN7pb.26189$cJ5.4314@www.newsranger.com>In article <bo2s4r$17ituk$1@ID-203097.news.uni-berlin.de>, kat says...snipDespite Robyn's fustration at not getting the information she seeks, she hasat no time come across as *only* wanting information from her bmother andto not actually have a relationship with her. She has *repeatedly* statedthat she has forgone attempts to get that information *because* she desiresa relationship with her bmother. How you and Jackie see that as "comingacross here" as only wanting to get information and not have a relationshipwith her bmother is strange considering all the evidence to the contrary.Thanks, Kathy - You're exactly right. I have been spending almost two yearswriting my bmom every two months in the hope of building a relationship withher(mind you, I've heard from her only 3 times in the time period). This wholesituation that Jackie is going on about and my "attitude" happened rightbeforeI started working on developing this relationship. Apparently she'd rathertakeme to task over two year old posts rather than focus on anything I've postedsince. Doesn't make much sense to me.RobynResident Witchypoo & EAC Spellcaster#1557

I've been reading your posts on this matter, and no way, NO HOW, are you an
adoptee with an attitude. Quite frankly, I don't think Jackie is capable of
understanding, or has the intelligence to figure out that your reunion is not
about the one sized fit all birthmother....

Ironically, I believe you to have the patience of a saint when dealing with
Jackie's narrow mindedness....and judgements against your character. If anyone
shows attitude about your reunion....It's Jackie.

I don't know why you need to explain this, Robin...or why you continue to
defend your actions in YOUR reunion...

.....You know, and the people that have been here with you all along know what
you have put up with from Jackie. Screw the short sighted opinions from the
peanut gallery of one....















Kathy
"To err is human; to forgive, divine."

In article <20031102121220.10683.00000149@mb-m17.aol.com>, Kathy says...
snipI've been reading your posts on this matter, and no way, NO HOW, are you anadoptee with an attitude. Quite frankly, I don't think Jackie is capable ofunderstanding, or has the intelligence to figure out that your reunion is notabout the one sized fit all birthmother....Ironically, I believe you to have the patience of a saint when dealing withJackie's narrow mindedness....and judgements against your character. If anyoneshows attitude about your reunion....It's Jackie.

The funniest thing about this whole exchange is that she's reading me the riot
act over two-year-old posts, focusing on any negative comments I might have made
- not to mention "Kim's influence". It's ridulous.
I don't know why you need to explain this, Robin...or why you continue todefend your actions in YOUR reunion...

Oh well, we all need a hobby ;D
....You know, and the people that have been here with you all along know whatyou have put up with from Jackie. Screw the short sighted opinions from thepeanut gallery of one....

Don't worry - Her comments mean nothing to me ;)

Robyn
Resident Witchypoo & EAC Spellcaster
#1557