my frustration startes in pennsylvania with my ex-wife and continues in new york where i live. i have custody of my son, my ex-wife has custody of my daughter. my ex-wife is insisting on 1 hour supervised visits in her home.( what garbage )needless to say my kids are older teens 16 & 17. my new wife is not allowed in her home and wants to also see my daughter. i think that since we both ( my ex and i) have custody of a child that support should be eliminated. and how is it right that i always have to go to pa to see my daughter or to let my ex see our son. looking fo help but no luck. and 1 more question witch state has legal rights?

Have no idea but if y ou think you have a raw deal, you should take it up with the court and ask that new conditions be imposed. Also, if the order does not say supervised visitation, then tell her that she cannot limit you that way and if she tries to, call the police to come out and hand them the order and take the child with you fofr visitation and return the child. I think you are going to have to get more proactive in this situation and be willing to stand up for seeing your kids even if it may cause temporary embarassment by calling the police to enforce your visitation. Hopefully, then she will get the message to stop playing games. If games persist, I suggest going and seeking modification of custody and seeking custody of both kids if you are being deprived of maintaining a parent-child relationship and you do not even know why. Consult an atty local to where the case is being handled- where the court that issues the orders is located.