jazzeyb
10-04-2005, 08:43 AM
I have an odd situation. I have an immediate supervisor who happens to also be a Babptist preacher. In my opinion he has some pretty off the wall view-points. He questions my Christianity, and all throughout the day talks about Jesus and Judgement day. I agree with some things but disagree with many things. These are not conversations I start with. We work in the technology field, by the way.
Here is where the complexity grows. This person, does NOT like me.. AT ALL !!
HE has told many people that I bring the team down and he wishes I was not employed here. It goes beyond that though, and gets more complex. My best friend works with me, who happens to be this guy's brother in law. SO he goes to my best friend's parents and tells them of what I do at work, how I act, how I am "UnChristian", and tells them about current disclipanary processes or actions being made against me, for things he has brought up out off his own facist and personal opinion. So not only do I feel like he is shoving HIS religion down my throat, and using it to discredit me, I amost feel like I have no confidentiality at work,(which is a very large business) with him leaving and telling my friend's relatives how bad I am, or how he wishes I wasn't working here. You can imagine how "pins and needles" I am around him anyway, but it seems as if he waits for anything I do negative no matter how small it may be, to blow it up into a major issue and use it to discredit me, or what I have come to terms as "professional and legal slander" against me. The tech market is very slim where we live so it's not like I can just slap my 2-weeks down and leave. I just feel like somewhere without retalitaion risk against me there is some legal term I can throw out to maybe just keep him off of my case. Prime example, I had a private phone conversation in my office, which two other people in my oggice overheard because they were in here. I did not yell, but did use the " f " word a few times in this 30 second conversation. This of course was blown out of what it really was. and even though the " f " word is used freely around the workplace by others, I have been suspended for a day w/out pay and lost 8 PDO's because of it, becuase this guy hates me so bad and made it that much of a deal, even though we had already talked about it and he said all was fine. Aghhh what can I do?? This is so unfair... just to sit back and be hunted.
Here is where the complexity grows. This person, does NOT like me.. AT ALL !!
HE has told many people that I bring the team down and he wishes I was not employed here. It goes beyond that though, and gets more complex. My best friend works with me, who happens to be this guy's brother in law. SO he goes to my best friend's parents and tells them of what I do at work, how I act, how I am "UnChristian", and tells them about current disclipanary processes or actions being made against me, for things he has brought up out off his own facist and personal opinion. So not only do I feel like he is shoving HIS religion down my throat, and using it to discredit me, I amost feel like I have no confidentiality at work,(which is a very large business) with him leaving and telling my friend's relatives how bad I am, or how he wishes I wasn't working here. You can imagine how "pins and needles" I am around him anyway, but it seems as if he waits for anything I do negative no matter how small it may be, to blow it up into a major issue and use it to discredit me, or what I have come to terms as "professional and legal slander" against me. The tech market is very slim where we live so it's not like I can just slap my 2-weeks down and leave. I just feel like somewhere without retalitaion risk against me there is some legal term I can throw out to maybe just keep him off of my case. Prime example, I had a private phone conversation in my office, which two other people in my oggice overheard because they were in here. I did not yell, but did use the " f " word a few times in this 30 second conversation. This of course was blown out of what it really was. and even though the " f " word is used freely around the workplace by others, I have been suspended for a day w/out pay and lost 8 PDO's because of it, becuase this guy hates me so bad and made it that much of a deal, even though we had already talked about it and he said all was fine. Aghhh what can I do?? This is so unfair... just to sit back and be hunted.
