been reading this for a few days now and as an adult adoptee

we have the right to know our true heritage.. its that plain and simple
NO matter wether we chose contact with naturals are not that is our choice.
But We DO have The Right TO know OUR HERITAGE!!!!!!!!! that is our given
right and no closed adoption can stop that cause in most states age of 18
adoptees can petetion the courts for records and get
them.........................
ADOPTION SUCKS NO MATTER HOW IT IS PUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
RECORDS NEED TO BE OPEN EVEN IF FOR HEALTH RECORDS!!!!!!

When an adopted child has problems in life its blamed on the natural parents
but no one stops to think of the impact that the adoption had on that child
instead they want to blame............People need to start putting blame
where it belongs and that is on the adoption industries who are taking and
selling babies for profit.....

You also might want to check out

http://www.adoptioncrossroads.org - Adoption Crossroads
search/support/referrals/bookstore/healing programs
http://www.adoptioncrossroads.org/healing.shtml - Healing Weekends for
adoptees and mothers who lost babies to adoption
http://www.adoptioncrossroads.org/whereg.shtml - A list of over 475
Adoption Search/Support groups world-wide
http://www.adoptionhealing.com - A unique book for healing the wound
of separation of mother and child


Adoption hurts all involved........ People need to wake up that not all
adoptions are all good and done in best intrest of the child... There are
adult and minor adoptees who didn't have the so called "chosen
life"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But no one wants to hear true horror stories behind
adoption............





Tina

Adult Adoptee

This is a topic with many viewpoints. Some kids want to know where they come from biologically, which is natural. Some parents want to forget that part of their lives, which is understandable.