missinmykids
06-11-2005, 09:30 PM
Back to my drama. I want my kids to live with me. When we decided he would have the kids I lived in Missouri. Since I have moved to Tx and we did so verbal agreements. With me having the cancer and all the insurance company did not pay b/c they said it was preexisting. The old plan states I have them every other weekend and we split holidays. Every other weekend is imposssible 9 hours away. With me faaling behind on the support due to my illness and then the medical bills pile up we filed chapter 13. The back support was figured into our playment plan so I made this months payment and that made me current. He still does not see that. Won't let me see them and if so he won't let me have them over night or calls every 5 seconds and tells them that their little brother misses them and is crying so they need ro come home. Totally upsets the kids. When I call his new wife listens on the other line. I want to go to court to revise our situation. His new wife stays at home and is all pta mom etc. and he lives on his parents property in there old house no rent no nothing. He is to hold insurance on the kids but only has medical and they were on medicaid but the state kicked them off. We have full insurance including dental and vision and my sons wears glasses. He won't let me put them on the insurance b/b he says he needs the money. I t states in our papers my support goes to reinburse him for insurance. But he sends me all these extra bills. He also won't let my family see them. What do I do??? Do I have a chance getting them even though we live in a diffrent state? And when I call it depends on what kind of mood they are in if I get to talk to them. Alot of the times his wife tells me she is on the phone so I will have to call back. Mo9nd you this is longdistance. It also states that are to encourage a relationship with me. Instead they discourage it. I feel he has gotten too much control with his mommys money. Any comments!!!! :confused:
