cclose
06-08-2005, 09:18 AM
I had these's 2 so called friends they were both letting me about there life's outside of work at work and from work these's 2 people started seeing each other and both wehere telling me different story's about there life with each other so when i was at work i ask one if everything was worked out she said yes and i said well he is not talking to me now (and it is his lost) is all and what i said meaning it's his lost has having me for a friend the next day i was called into the office and written up for causeing a hostile working environment am i did i what did i do :-(
Beth3
06-08-2005, 09:28 AM
I have to tell you that your post is barely ingelligible. Some punctuation would have helped considerably.
What I'm understanding is that you have two co-workers who started dating, developed some problems, and both were confiding in you their version of whatever conflicts the two of them had. The male co-worker stopped talking to you and you made a comment about it to the other employee involved in this situation.
No, you certainly didn't do anything that can be construed as having caused a hostile work environment in the legal meaning of that term. If your employer objects to something you said or your involvement in this personal relationship mess between these two co-workers, they're free to discipline you though.
In the future, I expect you'll find it best either not to get too involved with co-workers' personal problems or at least limit the discussions to off-work time.