In alt.support.divorce Roger B. <rcblinn-xxx-@bellsouth.net> wrote:
: My question is: How do we do this? Can we just have a lawyer draw up
: some papers? Do we HAVE to go back to court? Do we have to pay a huge
: fee? If we both agree to this, is there an EASY way to go about it?

: I'm just looking for a starting point here. Please don't say, "Check
: with your state", because I already know that I'll need to do that.
: I'm just looking for opinions and experiences that you may have had
: with this.

: Any help would be greatly appreciated!

: B.

: The 4-yr term seems like a good deal to me! Compare this to my
: wife and her ex-husband's agreement made 12 yrs ago, when they
: divorced after a 15-yr. marriage with 2 kids in their early teens. He
: had a good job, she had limited prospects. Their deal: $900/mo for
: CS, $450/mo for permanent alimony (until death or remarriage). [R]

It puzzles me why you would marry a woman who reamed her ex on support and
has "limited prospects" of earning money. She must be one helluva lay.

I hope you have a good prenup.

b.

<barry@psyber.com> wrote in message
news:6b112$4293a627$cc1d9013$7767@news.flashnewsgr oups.com... In alt.support.divorce Roger B. <rcblinn-xxx-@bellsouth.net> wrote: : My question is: How do we do this? Can we just have a lawyer draw up : some papers? Do we HAVE to go back to court? Do we have to pay a huge : fee? If we both agree to this, is there an EASY way to go about it? : I'm just looking for a starting point here. Please don't say, "Check : with your state", because I already know that I'll need to do that. : I'm just looking for opinions and experiences that you may have had : with this. : Any help would be greatly appreciated! : B. : The 4-yr term seems like a good deal to me! Compare this to my : wife and her ex-husband's agreement made 12 yrs ago, when they : divorced after a 15-yr. marriage with 2 kids in their early teens. He : had a good job, she had limited prospects. Their deal: $900/mo for : CS, $450/mo for permanent alimony (until death or remarriage). [R] It puzzles me why you would marry a woman who reamed her ex on support and has "limited prospects" of earning money. She must be one helluva lay. I hope you have a good prenup.

Most women who stayed at home and took the time to raise the kids, as it
should be, have limited prospects of earning money.

Bu someone else's standards, you probably have limited prospects of earning
money too. I guess that makes you a bad marriage material.

USlegalforms.com is a good site to look at prenuptial, divorce and child support and custody forms if you are a do-it yourselfer.