"Cynthia" <cindymcgeemom@yahoo.com> wrote in message
news:6qmdnVC6yJa1lnvfRVn-rA@comcast.com... What medical history, because really what little they knew about the pregnant girl is not going to end up being significant anyway in most
cases.

Oh bull****. My brother (also adopted) had NO idea that heart disease ran
in his family. Here he thought he was all nice and healthy, rarely sick a
day in his life, and guess who had a heart attack and triple bypass at age
36? And I noticed that you didn't mention your kids birthdads in your above
comment. How telling. Guess the man doesn't count, huh?
Our kids were chosen to look a lot like us, and they don't worry who they look like anyway.

Oh really? Is that what they tell you? What makes you think this won't
matter to them sometime in the future?

They have each other for siblings and they have the history of growing up with us as a family, thats what history is, your history is what you have been through in your life.

To YOU maybe, but that certainly doesn't apply to everyone. Try thinking
outside of your little world, if that's at all possible.

They don't feel deprived of anythign, they have a life just like other kids that come from nonadoptive families. Nobody makes a deal that they weren't born to us in the conventional way, it just isnt an _issue_.

How do you know this for a fact? Your kids could have all kinds of issues
that you're ignoring or just don't want to deal with. You sound like an
awfully insecure adoptive parent to me.

What are you going to do if they search for their bio family sometime in the
future? Disown them?
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