I am having alot of trouble with my husbands X. She has corrupted her 17 year old daughter and now the daughter is saying a bunch of lies to all kinds of people. We have the DSS coming to our house because the daughter told the school that my husband beats our children for bad grades and that he constantly hits on them, we have 6 children, except now we have 4 because the X came and took the oldest 2. My husband and I have been together for 15 years and this has been an ongoing battle for years. The X told everyone when we went to court to get our child support dropped because the kids were with us that he never had the kids in all those years. We have had the kids for at least half that time and school records to prove it but noone wants to see this,judges. What can a man get accomplished in this prejudicial system? We are being taken back to court again to have the child support started up what can we do to help our case? Also this is the kind of woman we have to deal with, for her daughters 16th birthday she got her a box of condoms so she could have sex with her boyfriend at the time!! But when we bring up stuff like this(and there is tons more!) no court wants to hear about it.WHY? This woman threw her 2 kids out and said if we didn't come to get them she would have the state take them because she couldn't handle them. So why does she keep winning when we go to court? Please help us. :eek:

This is not the response you are looking for, but maybe the children, since they are 16 and mature, should file to become emancipated minors, and that would end the back and forth fights period. It sounds like the kids could benefit from a stable home, but at the same time, the kids are old enough to make their wishes known to the court and if they do not want to be there and follow the house rules and corrupt your home, maybe they are best off as emancipated minors by court adjudication.