ShakinThingzUp
02-25-2009, 02:00 PM
I am asking advice for an acquaintance. So, I don't have all the details - I will answer any questions I can in order to get him some advice... For obvious reasons, I'm not going to use any names.
The bio-father of the child lives in NC.
His daughter (now 5 years old) lived with her bio-mother in Florida.
He visits his daughter regularly and his step-children have a relationship with her also. (How regularly I do not know).
The little girl was molested and violently beaten by the mothers boyfriend. The boyfriend is on the run from the law. Social Services came and removed the daughter from the home. Dad was informed (by whom I'm not sure).
He went down immediately. He visited his daughter (who is in foster care). He said she seemed ok (was still bruised badly though). He was not allowed to bring her home to NC and a court date was established to determine (??temporary custody??).
He was put in touch with the local social services dept. and told he will need to submit to a home inspection, etc. before they will allow him to bring her from Florida to NC. (Sounds like the guidelines for foster parents becoming licensed, or step parents adopting - having to do two home inspections and an investigation) ???? He was told this process usually takes 6 months.
His court date is March 10.
Is there anything he can do to speed up getting his daughter home?
He was injured at his job, recently had back surgery. He is currently not working due to recovery from surgery (probably for another 3 months). His wife works full time. Obviously, funds are tight. Hiring a lawyer is probably going to be difficult. I want to tell him anything that might help him, as I know his heart is broken over this entire situation.... not being able to be there for his daughter.
Thank you,
Amy
The bio-father of the child lives in NC.
His daughter (now 5 years old) lived with her bio-mother in Florida.
He visits his daughter regularly and his step-children have a relationship with her also. (How regularly I do not know).
The little girl was molested and violently beaten by the mothers boyfriend. The boyfriend is on the run from the law. Social Services came and removed the daughter from the home. Dad was informed (by whom I'm not sure).
He went down immediately. He visited his daughter (who is in foster care). He said she seemed ok (was still bruised badly though). He was not allowed to bring her home to NC and a court date was established to determine (??temporary custody??).
He was put in touch with the local social services dept. and told he will need to submit to a home inspection, etc. before they will allow him to bring her from Florida to NC. (Sounds like the guidelines for foster parents becoming licensed, or step parents adopting - having to do two home inspections and an investigation) ???? He was told this process usually takes 6 months.
His court date is March 10.
Is there anything he can do to speed up getting his daughter home?
He was injured at his job, recently had back surgery. He is currently not working due to recovery from surgery (probably for another 3 months). His wife works full time. Obviously, funds are tight. Hiring a lawyer is probably going to be difficult. I want to tell him anything that might help him, as I know his heart is broken over this entire situation.... not being able to be there for his daughter.
Thank you,
Amy
