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joey20046
09-29-2008, 01:02 PM
Hi I am writting this on behalf of my boyfriend, David who works as an assistant manager at a tractor supply. As he came into this job his boss (the store manager) had a terrible attitude and so did the employees there. They were treating him badly because they were upset that one of there group members didnt get the position David got. The store manager had a problem with it too because the district manager was the one who hired him in this position to be trained to become a store manager.

Anyways the store manager uses David to do jobs like stocking and loadouts while all the other associates sit and do nothing, he never seems to be trained any of the manager skills that he should be using. He will not allow David to even act as a manager and is constantly telling him to leave his people alone. Note that these associates occasionally meet at the store managers home and drink and party quite a few times. The store manager would also work him to death, making him work 13 days straight for 10 hours each day while he would come in and leave early as he pleases everyday.

Almost a year into David's training one of the employees started talking very rude to him on the sales floor. She said **** you quite a few times to him when he would ask her to help them out. He sent her home once and the store manager was mad at him because he did this, until she admited that she was disrespecting him and he told him to send her home if she ever did this again, then a few weeks later she did this again and David sent her home and she got so mad that she went on this rampage telling all her girlfriends at work and yelled at him that he will be sorry and that she was going to call corporate. A few minutes later the store manager showed up yelling at him that she called him crying and quit and that he was in trouble. The store manager then took each female employee in the office to ask them about David. He wrote him up for something like disrespecting the associates and that was later (about a couple days) taken off by the district manager after he had seen it and talked about what this girl did.

Then about a week later the human resources showed up telling him that there were sexual harrassment complaints from more than one female. Note that these females were all of that girls friends. None of these accussations were true. One girl called and said that he was rubbing her thighs and he never worked with the girl. And a couple others wrote letters twisting some of the stories to sound like sexual harrassment. Like he was talking one day to the associates explaining how he lost his dog and he got stopped by the police in his PJ's in the cemetary behind his home looking for the dog. They took this story and twisted it making it sound like he said it was a kinky place to be and somehow that was sexual harrassment which I dont get at all. A week later the store manager told him that he had to take a sexual harrassment test which David denied to take because he never did anything.

Today the store manger told him that the district manger is coming tomorrow to fire him....He doesnt know what to do and it's stressing us out so much. All he wants is to just go to work and come home. Someone please help, he doesnt know how to get them to believe him and to me it sounds like this store manager is trying to get rid of him. He's afraid that if he says something about how his manager treats him and what has been going on that he will then be accussed of retaliation which is exactly what these girls are doing because he sent that girl home, but they dont seem to see that. He also doesnt understand why they dont see why his own manager wasnt backing him on sending this girl home from disreaspecting him like that.... They just now told him to clear off his desk as Im speaking.

panther10758
09-29-2008, 01:06 PM
It is not illegal to terminate someone for "suspected" wrongdoing

Pattymd
09-29-2008, 01:08 PM
OK, this seems to be the iteration that got the first response. This post appears in three different forums.

joey20046
09-29-2008, 01:11 PM
Ok im sorry but why is it all the sudden his fault when they have no proof of this ever taking place? Why arn't they investigating the girl that disrespected him and why would they even take these accussations into consideration if this was right after he had sent her home? It's obvious retaliation! I dont get it!

joey20046
09-29-2008, 01:14 PM
OK, this seems to be the iteration that got the first response. This post appears in three different forums.

Sorry to irritate you, y r u looking for duplicate posts? I didnt duplicate them in the same category. Im just trying to figure out what category it is under so I just posted them in the ones I thought was it.

panther10758
09-29-2008, 01:20 PM
Posting it once will suffice. I fin wrong area a moderaotr would likely move it. Click "new Posts" first few posts are mostly yours with same question

joey20046
09-29-2008, 01:24 PM
You need to work on your grahmar man. Either that or your trying to type 5000 words/minute. Then whoever is able to delete some of them please do. or just wait a few minutes for them to go off the recent posts list!

panther10758
09-29-2008, 02:47 PM
whats grahmar?

Pattymd
09-30-2008, 03:50 AM
whats grahmar?

Your mother's or father's mother? :)

joey20046
09-30-2008, 12:39 PM
Seriously this message board (deleted) SUCKS! Im not here to act like a little kid, I NEED ANSWERS!

cbg
09-30-2008, 01:50 PM
You've been given answers. The problem is they aren't the answers you want to hear. Fair or unfair, what his employer has done is not illegal.

If you are expecting us to tell you WHY they have fired him and WHY they are not investigating the other individual, sorry, but that's not something we can do. We do not have a crystal ball to say why someone else has done or not done something and we are not inside their heads.

joey20046
09-30-2008, 02:13 PM
Well maybe you should be! I've seen more and more people lose their jobs because of some unethical problem created by the unlikely person above them and this should come to an end. Im sick and tired of having a job where I never know if I have a job the next day and it seems like no matter where you go it's like this. The HR women that is interigating him is being very discriminative and changing her stories like she hates him and wants to get rid of him because of it when she dont even know him. These little kid games that these upper management people are playing have got to stop and it seems like there is no legal advice at all to help. No wonder all the idiots are the ones left in the major companies, because all the people that have brains in their ****ing heads either quit because the company never deserved them in the first place or they get fired for some made up ****ing reason because they are a threat to these magets!

panther10758
09-30-2008, 03:40 PM
We arent here for opinions. We are here to answer your labor questions. We did.If your unhappy with the law we cant help that, write your Congressman

cbg
10-01-2008, 09:09 AM
I'm sorry you're unhappy with the answers you've received here. But the only person who can tell you WHY someone else does something is the person themselves. We don't know why any more than you do.

And your language is not acceptable on this site.

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