My XH moved from ID to WA. According to our Custody Order he is required to get written prmission from me or the court and hav the custody agreement changed due to the impossility of mataiing current custody if he is more than 50 miles away. It also states that either parent must have written permision to take our daughter out of the state for more than 48hrs. My daughter has a recently diagnosed illness, and until it is under control I want her here, near her Dr. Mostly b/c XH has accused her of faking. (Although she cannot "fake" blood test reults) I gave him written permission via e-mail for her to be in WA 7/15-8/7. He is saying we have a verbal agreement for 6/30, which I never agreed to. He says he is going to take his visitation here in ID on Tues. (Papers state he has her 8 a.m. Tues-8 a.m Wed) which is fine with me, EXCEPT he has said in e-mails to me and to my daughter that he is going to pick her up and take her to WA. What can I do? Is this kidnapping? Can I do anything ahead of time since it has been threatened in e-mails, or do I wait until if/when he takes her? Does the fact that I have a note from her Dr. make a difference? I do not know what to do! There is a lot more, including the things he says/ does to my daughter. I am just afraid of what he may say/do to her IF he takes her during the time I am trying to get her home.

This not kidnapping at best its contempt

That is what I wanted to know. What can I do??? Anything? I am not trying to deny him visitation. She just needs her medical needs taken care of first, as he does not take them seriously. I DO have a Dr.'s not stating she can't travel until 7/15. Does that matter? He has told her (and me in e-mail) that he is going to take her, and she is scared to go with hm. I am trying to reassure her that it will be okay, and that I hope she and her Dad have a good visit.

Take everything you have go to court file for either contempt (if he has violated existing order) or modification of order to fit child's current needs.

Thank you! I have an appt 7/15 w/ an attny to change current order, and will file contempt if takes her before the date I gave written permission.