Wictolia
05-22-2008, 02:54 PM
I just wanted to let you all know that I found this message board while searching for some legal help to try to get the fangs of my husband's ex-wife out of our necks.
I read some of these posts hoping that someone may have been in the same situation and that I could glean some valuable information that I could use.
We have paid child support religously for the entire time of the divorce, and anytime we were in arrears was because of job changes, which we caught up as soon as possible.
We got phone calls to help pay for hair cuts, bikes, cars, insurance for cars, JAIL BOND, you name it. The cow that is my husband's ex-wife conveniently got fired from her job and is now collecting disability based on my husband's salary for the 13 years they were married.
Now the boy is 18, turning 19 on July 28, and she is taking us to court for two more years of support....claiming he will be attending a trade school. Not only that, but she is asking for us to continue to pay for his health insurance and hearing aid maintenance.
Of course the boy takes after his lazy bottom feeder mother and hasn't worked a day in his life. He just wants to get free money, too. They sit around and smoke marijuana and he posts pictures of himself drunk on his MySpace page.
His daughter is even more special. She dropped out of school at 16 and the Ex let her boyfriend move in with them. And how special....they had a child (SUPRISE) and now the three of them live happily and cozily IN HER BASEMENT. And I know you're curious as to what the boy does for a living? Why nothing of course!
But oh my God....don't let the child support be late! There will be hell to pay. She said to me once "HE OWES ME THAT MONEY!!"
To all you women out there who are bitter and just want to make your EX man "pay" for the wrong they did you, get over yourself and get a effing life. No one owes you anything. You are a worthless bottom feeder and you suck the life and oxygen out of everyone with whom you come in contact.
Don't bother giving me a warning or contacting me through email, because I'm not interested in becoming part of your venemous community. I just thought you should get a dose of reality because obviously some of you have lost vision of what it is to be a successful INDEPENDENT WOMAN!
SHAME ON YOU for being "supported." You should be embarassed. Are you so weak you can't make it on your own? Are you so lazy that you can't work a full time job? Are you so stupid you can't get the education you need to get a good job? I hear stories all the time of single mothers who raised 5, 6 and 7 children without any help at all. Was it easy? Hell no it wasn't easy, but they did it because they HAD TO DO IT. They didn't sit around and whine and cry about how they were done wrong by a filthy man and that he must pay!
GET OVER YOURSELVES! YOU ARE AN EMBARASSEMENT TO THE FEMININE RACE!
Goodbye!
I read some of these posts hoping that someone may have been in the same situation and that I could glean some valuable information that I could use.
We have paid child support religously for the entire time of the divorce, and anytime we were in arrears was because of job changes, which we caught up as soon as possible.
We got phone calls to help pay for hair cuts, bikes, cars, insurance for cars, JAIL BOND, you name it. The cow that is my husband's ex-wife conveniently got fired from her job and is now collecting disability based on my husband's salary for the 13 years they were married.
Now the boy is 18, turning 19 on July 28, and she is taking us to court for two more years of support....claiming he will be attending a trade school. Not only that, but she is asking for us to continue to pay for his health insurance and hearing aid maintenance.
Of course the boy takes after his lazy bottom feeder mother and hasn't worked a day in his life. He just wants to get free money, too. They sit around and smoke marijuana and he posts pictures of himself drunk on his MySpace page.
His daughter is even more special. She dropped out of school at 16 and the Ex let her boyfriend move in with them. And how special....they had a child (SUPRISE) and now the three of them live happily and cozily IN HER BASEMENT. And I know you're curious as to what the boy does for a living? Why nothing of course!
But oh my God....don't let the child support be late! There will be hell to pay. She said to me once "HE OWES ME THAT MONEY!!"
To all you women out there who are bitter and just want to make your EX man "pay" for the wrong they did you, get over yourself and get a effing life. No one owes you anything. You are a worthless bottom feeder and you suck the life and oxygen out of everyone with whom you come in contact.
Don't bother giving me a warning or contacting me through email, because I'm not interested in becoming part of your venemous community. I just thought you should get a dose of reality because obviously some of you have lost vision of what it is to be a successful INDEPENDENT WOMAN!
SHAME ON YOU for being "supported." You should be embarassed. Are you so weak you can't make it on your own? Are you so lazy that you can't work a full time job? Are you so stupid you can't get the education you need to get a good job? I hear stories all the time of single mothers who raised 5, 6 and 7 children without any help at all. Was it easy? Hell no it wasn't easy, but they did it because they HAD TO DO IT. They didn't sit around and whine and cry about how they were done wrong by a filthy man and that he must pay!
GET OVER YOURSELVES! YOU ARE AN EMBARASSEMENT TO THE FEMININE RACE!
Goodbye!
