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Ok my fiance had a one night stand 3 years ago yes it was hard for me to deal with, but I have excepted the fact of the matter. Child now 3. I can not get dad to have any part of his life. He does pay support every month on time. Me and mom don't talk but I did order some gifts and had them sent to the home for his birthday. Is that bad? I signed the gift with our son's names witch is his half brother? Mom hasn't said anything yet, I just hope she dosen't get upset? Anybody have any advice? Thanks

By your user ID you are a woman. Your boyfriend has a child and he doesn't want to be a part of the child's life. And, you're still with him? Why would YOU and the mother talk?:confused: Why are you responsible for sending gifts? Just how many kids does your BF have? He certainly doesn't appear to be a "stand up" guy. What are you expecting mom to "start"?:confused: I'm not sure what advice you're looking for.

This is the same question that has been asked repeatedly. The fact is that the child is (was)supposed to be adopted. Mom26...you cannot force your bf to have a relationship with this child against his will. It just won't happen. If you can't accept that fact, you need to seriously reevaluate your relationship.

No this isn't the same thing or same question....... I'll just delete my post if no one has a nice answer for me

Ok my fiance had a one night stand 3 years ago yes it was hard for me to deal with, but I have excepted the fact of the matter. Child now 3. I can not get dad to have any part of his life. He does pay support every month on time. Me and mom don't talk but I did order some gifts and had them sent to the home for his birthday. Is that bad? I signed the gift with our son's names witch is his half brother? Mom hasn't said anything yet, I just hope she dosen't get upset? Anybody have any advice? Thanks

No this isn't the same thing or same question....... I'll just delete my post if no one has a nice answer for me

Since you didn't actually have a legal question, then you opened yourself up for opinions on your behavior. If you want "nice" answers, you should ask your friends. But when you post here, you should expect blunt honesty.

You have no rights where this child is concerned. You have no legal obligation to force your bf to be a part of this child's life. Yes, the child is your child's half-sibling, but siblings do not have legal rights to see or hear from each other. It's not "bad" to send gifts, but I wouldn't expect anything to come from it. And if she asks you not to do it anymore, then you must stop.

Do you have a LEGAL question? Because those we can answer.

Wait, so your fiancee had one night stands with two different women, thus impregnating two different women?

Or is this somebody else using your account?

I'm confused. :confused:

(and if it IS the same mother and the same child and the same fiancee, yes you have asked multiple questions about gifts, no contact, birthday cards, and recieving no thanks when you have sent gifts. You have also posted that the mother has stated off and on that she wants no contact, at all.)

Wait, so your fiancee had one night stands with two different women, thus impregnating two different women?

Or is this somebody else using your account?

I'm confused. :confused:

When I quickly reviewed the previous posts, she was asking about HER kids' dad, and wanting him to terminate his rights. Now, this was only a quick look at the recent ones. Now, she is asking about her fiance, who doesn't want to see his child. If I am correct, then OP seriously picked 2 losers to father her children. The father of her child doesn't really exercise his visitation rights, and her fiance doesn't either, with his child.


She deleted the OP, but since I quoted her, the question is in my response.

No, the fiancee had a child that is 3 months older than her son (she and the fiancee are the parents to her son...he is the father to both children...it gets confusing). The 3 year old was supposed to be adopted by the mother's husband.

Who knows? This has been going on for a while. It may not even be the same person posting. (there was also a brother in law that had a child with whom there was no contact and grandparents and family wanting visitation with HIS child.)

You're right. I misunderstood the previous posts.

No this isn't the same thing or same question....... I'll just delete my post if no one has a nice answer for me

Wait... huh? :confused:

I re-read your previous posts, and of course you are talking about the same situation. That is, unless your boyfriend had TWO one night stands in the same week that BOTH resulted in a pregnancy. Why would you lie about that?

According to your other posts, bio-Mom has told you to stop contacting her. So to answer your original (now deleted) question of "does anyone have advice?" the answer is: stop contacting this woman. The child is set to be adopted by his/her stepfather. Your bf wants this. All you are doing is literally sticking your nose where it does not belong, as you have NO LEGAL RIGHT to initiate any type of contact with this child, not on behalf of your child and certainly not on behalf of your bf. And since you have actually been told to leave the child alone, then yes, it is "bad" that you sent gifts. Stop it.

Wait... huh? :confused:

I re-read your previous posts, and of course you are talking about the same situation. That is, unless your boyfriend had TWO one night stands in the same week that BOTH resulted in a pregnancy. Why would you lie about that?

According to your other posts, bio-Mom has told you to stop contacting her. So to answer your original (now deleted) question of "does anyone have advice?" the answer is: stop contacting this woman. The child is set to be adopted by his/her stepfather. Your bf wants this. All you are doing is literally sticking your nose where it does not belong, as you have NO LEGAL RIGHT to initiate any type of contact with this child, not on behalf of your child and certainly not on behalf of your bf. And since you have actually been told to leave the child alone, then yes, it is "bad" that you sent gifts. Stop it.


Never mind that she will, with her interfering, really confuse this child. My theory is that the OP doesn't want to believe that her fiancé is so "cold" that he could give up own his own child...because if he could do that to the other child, than he could do that to HER child!

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