Hey People Thanks For ur help in the past well i think i got it.. i live in chicago and im going to finish school in june and in july my mom is going to let me go to ny ( remeber she mistreats me and does drugs) i also have a year and half old son) well im going to ny and im planning on not coming back my aunt is tired of what ive been going thru and is willing to fight for custody for me YESSSSSSSSS i just want to know anything i can do to help her or if this is legal or ok please help me i really appreciate it and i hope this works its my only way out of this misery!!! anything will hepl thanks and god blesss

Hey People Thanks For ur help in the past well i think i got it.. i live in chicago and im going to finish school in june and in july my mom is going to let me go to ny ( remeber she mistreats me and does drugs) i also have a year and half old son) well im going to ny and im planning on not coming back my aunt is tired of what ive been going thru and is willing to fight for custody for me YESSSSSSSSS i just want to know anything i can do to help her or if this is legal or ok please help me i really appreciate it and i hope this works its my only way out of this misery!!! anything will hepl thanks and god blesss

no it is not legal. if you dont go home, you can be reported as a runaway, and your aunt can face a few criminal charges. not to mention you risk losing custody of your child. where is dad? his rights are greater then your aunts.

no it is not legal. if you dont go home, you can be reported as a runaway, and your aunt can face a few criminal charges. not to mention you risk losing custody of your child. where is dad? his rights are greater then your aunts.

Hey Kelly!!:p

Hey Kelly!!:p

:eek: She's baack! Oh happy, happy, joy, joy.:rolleyes:

:confused: :confused: The Dads A Dead Beat I Dont Want To be With Him I have A Bf Thats been by My side Raising My Son Since He Was 4 Months And My MoM Hates Him For That.. he Supports Me And My Son,,, But I DOnt Want To Get Into That... So What Your telling Me Is That There Is No Other Way???? I Dont Want To Go Through Foster Care With My Son And I Thought This Will be That Way Out of this misery??? What Should I Do Please Help..... Guess Im Back To Square 1 :(

If your mother would sign guardianship or better yet allow your aunt to adopt you (hey, her benefit there would be that she didn't need to pay to support you ever again so she may go for it), then you could legally be with your aunt.

Or, you could wait until you are 16 years of age and convince your parents to allow you to marry this person and then you would be emancipated via marriage and totally dependant upon him. I state totally dependant upon him because young marriage and allowing someone else to control your life is the worst decision to make in life.

There would be many other options for you if you didn't have children already. Right now, it's either your parents' choice or child protective services' choice. CPS would not allow you to be married. They MAY allow your aunt to take you if they find your parents unfit however.

Thanks For Your Reply I Really Appreciate It ( Alot Of People On Here Are Mean) One More Thing I Will Be 16 In Aug. And My MOm Does Coke What Really Pissed Me Off If When I Found My Son With An Empty Baggy In His Mouth...:mad: The Kid Ive Been With Has been By My Side Since I Was 4 Months Prego.. And I Love Him Dearly He Lives In ny as Well My Whole Family Adores Him But My Mom... I Have One Of His Debit Cards And He Gives Me Money Whenever Me Or My Son Needs Something... But The Problem is that my mom hates him for that i would use to have to beg her for clothes ,pampers ect.... but he supports us now and she hates him for that thats why my aunt wanted to take custody of me and let me get married with him... but what i hear is that she can get in trouble thats the last thing i want to do cause she is the only one helping ... i really dont want cps involved because i dont want my son to go through that is there any other options i mean any im open to ideas thanks

:eek: She's baack! Oh happy, happy, joy, joy.:rolleyes:

Been watching Ren and Stimpy? (geez...I can't believe I even remember that show!)

Brooklyn, the answers are the same as the last time you posted these questions. Your mother has complete control over every move you make. If she gives her permission for you to stay, good for you. If not, you get to come home after a nice visit. Your boyfriend has NO rights over you, only the child (assuming there is a court order granting him any parental rights). If your bf lives in NY, how in the world is he by your side, raising your son?

He Comes Every Weekend And Stays In A Hotel Just To See Us And Believe It Or Not We DO NOT have sex he just wants to see his step son and me and to make sure were taking care of

He Comes Every Weekend And Stays In A Hotel Just To See Us And Believe It Or Not We DO NOT have sex he just wants to see his step son and me and to make sure were taking care of

WHAT step-son? And who asked about your physical activities?

Look, you are a 15 year old child who made some pretty bad decisions (hence the baby). Your mother may be strung out, but at this point, as you are not willing to go the legal route, you are stuck in her home. She has control over who has ANY contact with you, and that includes your aunt.

The ONLY way that your aunt would be able to "keep you" is if your mother either agrees, or a court finds that your mother is unfit. NONE of the answers have changed.

Your mother does coke and you found one of the baggies in your child's mouth?! WHY haven't you called CPS and explained the situations of your home life?! Please call Child Protective Services and get out of there for the benefit of yourself and your child...

Your mother does coke and you found one of the baggies in your child's mouth?! WHY haven't you called CPS and explained the situations of your home life?! Please call Child Protective Services and get out of there for the benefit of yourself and your child...

Well, because, she wants to go live with her aunt and her boyfriend. If she actually contacts the authorities, she won't get to do that. :rolleyes:

It really sounds like NONE of them are fit to care for any child.

Well Mommyof4 Tge Only Person Who KNows My Situation Is Me And I Would Perfer No MOre Advice From You Thank You!!!!! And The Reson Why I Havent Called CPS Is Like I Said Before I Dont Want Me Or My Child Going Thru That... Its Very Hard To Get Out Of That Especiallly At My Age!!! Well Guess I Have To Rough It Out.... just Hope I Can make It and thank you everyone for your advive and no thank you to thoses who gave criticism!

Well, because, she wants to go live with her aunt and her boyfriend. If she actually contacts the authorities, she won't get to do that. :rolleyes:

It really sounds like NONE of them are fit to care for any child.

Going to have to agree with you on this one mommy. No offense OP, but if you truly cared for the welfare of your child, you would call CPS despite the fact you wouldn't get to live with your aunt.

A responsible adult would see how their current life could be affecting their child and do everything in their power to make their lives better. By not doing that, you're being extremely selfish. You can't always get what you want (living with aunt and bf), and you have to deal with that.

I'm sorry, but this is why teens shouldn't have sex. A lot of the time, they end up with children, and the babies are the ones who have to suffer for it. I sincerely hope your child will eventually lead a normal life, but the way you're talking, I wouldn't hold my breath.

Well Mommyof4 Tge Only Person Who KNows My Situation Is Me And I Would Perfer No MOre Advice From You Thank You!!!!! And The Reson Why I Havent Called CPS Is Like I Said Before I Dont Want Me Or My Child Going Thru That... Its Very Hard To Get Out Of That Especiallly At My Age!!! Well Guess I Have To Rough It Out.... just Hope I Can make It and thank you everyone for your advive and no thank you to thoses who gave criticism!

I don't recall asking your preference on who does or does not respond to you. The fact is that you are more concerned about living with your boyfriend (and I still want to know WHAT STEP SON) than you are with ensuring that your child is living in an environment that meets the basic tenets of safety and sanitation. The first requirement of a good mother is to protect her child. So far, assuming you are telling the truth and not adding details just to make your situation more dire in hopes of soliciting the answers you want, you are falling short of the mark. Grow up, Brooklyn. You don't get to be a little kid and hope somebody will just make it all better for you anymore. You gave that up when you decided to bring an innocent, helpless baby into this world. If you or your child is truly in danger, contact CPS RIGHT NOW. Your wishes and desires don't count worth squat anymore. Only your child's welfare matters. Now, be a mother.

I don't think you are understanding that if you call CPS and they remove you from your mother's home, they will try first to place you with a relative. Like your aunt.

Also, your boyfriend is not your child's step-parent. You have to be married for that. Where is the FATHER of your child?