In jersey you have to go back to court for emancipation. Child turned 18 Dec 8 2006 and has not been allowed to have contact with noncustodial. She has been taken out of the country without permission repeatedly, visitation has been denied for no reason but jealousy and to top it , she was ordered in 1996 to take his name off the house and did not until he contacted the bank in 2005 and made a scene. She then after repeated calls to her lawyer with laws that would cause her problems, she finally did this and in the meantime ruined his credit after using it fraudulently for 10 years.
So, we filed the papers and paid the fees and of course are paying 1000 a mo support when he makes 15K and she makes 70K. Go figure how she did that one??? LIED and lied.
So, now after knowing about the court date for months, they send a figgin letter saying both her lawyer and her had holiday plans that following weekend and want the hearing postponed from friday am. Now how convienent. 10 years and trying to pull more BS> We called the court and left a message that we do not agree with a change, they have done enough damage and no more delay after 10 years should be allowed. He has given up 10 years of vacations and not even a day of visitations!!! We eat beans and are on foodstamps while she takes cruises and international vacations and got the 200K house free!
What else can we do to enforce our rights?? We are in Iowa and they are in jersey. We even moved in 2003 to be close to them and was not allowed to see her etc. Her jealousy is bright green!! So with that we moved back where we both could find jobs in the midwest and cheaper living.
We were promised 2 weeks visitation last year and got lied to again. That controlling lesbian needs to get over it. Her and her domestic partner went to scotland repeatedly and not advising the courts or the noncustodial.
I got MS and he has been laid off since feb 14th but she still got all her money while we did without!!

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How should we prepare for this showdown? How can they fight this?
There has been no contact with the child, no income change only less and absolutely no choice in her college, they were never married therefore according to the law he does not have to pay for college. She has traveled alone to scotland, the barbados, key west all again without courts consent nor advising the non custodial.
The fact she was in contempt for 10 years not taking his name off the house and using his credit fraudulently...??
Not to mention denying visitation and contact. Promising a visit to the midwest and in fact lied after we upheld our part.
We moved and was denied visitation when we moved closer.
Okay.. what non custodial rights can we get and since she graduates next month from HS, gramma already bought her a car last year, not teaching her to earn her own.
We cannot afford a lawyer so how can we prepare for this??

How should we prepare for this showdown? How can they fight this?
There has been no contact with the child, no income change only less and absolutely no choice in her college, they were never married therefore according to the law he does not have to pay for college. She has traveled alone to scotland, the barbados, key west all again without courts consent nor advising the non custodial.
The fact she was in contempt for 10 years not taking his name off the house and using his credit fraudulently...??
Not to mention denying visitation and contact. Promising a visit to the midwest and in fact lied after we upheld our part.
We moved and was denied visitation when we moved closer.
Okay.. what non custodial rights can we get and since she graduates next month from HS, gramma already bought her a car last year, not teaching her to earn her own.
We cannot afford a lawyer so how can we prepare for this??

UMMM.... Jeff said duplicate post, and you are still posting. Where is your original post, so I may see it. IF you can not post on the original one, I can not or will not even try to answer.