ConfusedDad
01-18-2007, 05:33 PM
I was laid off from my job as a union residential carpenter in Illinois at the beginning of 2006, I started receiving unemployment benefits, during this time I continued to look for work a carpenter, or something within the same salary range. I was called back to work a couple times, but in September I was again unemployed and my benefits had been exhausted. The job market for my field of work has gone flat. In September I attempted to reduce Child support because I was not working and had no source of income. Before the court date I moved to Tennessee to look for work, after having no luck finding a job as a carpenter I took a job offer at a very reduced rate from my previous income ($1275 per month gross vs. $1000 per week gross as a carpenter).
My ex wife's attorney argued that I should be able to find a higher paying job since my ex had found a job 2 weeks after the company she worked for closed, I found out later she had applied for this new job 6 weeks before the company she worked for closed, and took the position 2 weeks after the closing. The job she found was less salary she had before, but is higher paying then my current income. He also argued that I went to a state where income is much less then in Illinois simply for the fact I have family there. Which to me was a good choice, because I would have not living expenses such rent, utilities etc. The judge agreed that I am capable of finding a higher paying job and would not reduce support.
I am not looking to reduce support forever, just to bring it in line with my current income. I am not underemployed by choice, it was something I had no control over and to me some source of income is better then none at all. And I still continue to look for work as a carpenter or another higher paying job.
We have 3 children together. Currently I am paying $160 per week in support, which is 32 percent of my disposable income as a carpenter after deductions. My current net income is 986.36 per month.
My employer is only able to deduct 50 percent of my take home pay for support which leaves me with an arrears every month.
To make matters worse, I also have 2 children with another women, who went through the Illinois Department of Public Aid and is represented by the attorney general.
She is getting $35 per week on one support order, this was reduced by a court order and is the minimum order that the judge will allow, something I can not understand since it is still above the state guidelines and there was no finding as to why he set this minimum. I was told by the attorney general this is the minimum the judge will set in any case he hears.
We also had a child in a different county where she is getting $60 per week. This case was supposed to be transfered by court order to the county the above order is located in.
I have attempted to consolidate these 2 cases into one based on the same mother and father since 2002 when the case from the other county was transfered to the county she lives in. Funny thing is no one could find this case until I was able to track it done this week. I put in another motion to consolidate again since I now have the actual case number, which was not known before since the counties do not use the same case numbers. I would like to be given credit for what I feel is an over payment of support to her. She had 2 orders for 20 percent of my net income vs. on order of 28 percent which is the state guideline for 2 children in Illinois
I am at wits end and very close to a nervous breakdown over all of this. Taking a lower paying job is not something I wanted to do but felt I needed to do. The way I felt after the court date for the case I first mentioned in this post, left me feeling belittled by everyone for stepping so low to take a job that paid me less then my previous income.
Does anyone have advice on how I should proceed?
My ex wife's attorney argued that I should be able to find a higher paying job since my ex had found a job 2 weeks after the company she worked for closed, I found out later she had applied for this new job 6 weeks before the company she worked for closed, and took the position 2 weeks after the closing. The job she found was less salary she had before, but is higher paying then my current income. He also argued that I went to a state where income is much less then in Illinois simply for the fact I have family there. Which to me was a good choice, because I would have not living expenses such rent, utilities etc. The judge agreed that I am capable of finding a higher paying job and would not reduce support.
I am not looking to reduce support forever, just to bring it in line with my current income. I am not underemployed by choice, it was something I had no control over and to me some source of income is better then none at all. And I still continue to look for work as a carpenter or another higher paying job.
We have 3 children together. Currently I am paying $160 per week in support, which is 32 percent of my disposable income as a carpenter after deductions. My current net income is 986.36 per month.
My employer is only able to deduct 50 percent of my take home pay for support which leaves me with an arrears every month.
To make matters worse, I also have 2 children with another women, who went through the Illinois Department of Public Aid and is represented by the attorney general.
She is getting $35 per week on one support order, this was reduced by a court order and is the minimum order that the judge will allow, something I can not understand since it is still above the state guidelines and there was no finding as to why he set this minimum. I was told by the attorney general this is the minimum the judge will set in any case he hears.
We also had a child in a different county where she is getting $60 per week. This case was supposed to be transfered by court order to the county the above order is located in.
I have attempted to consolidate these 2 cases into one based on the same mother and father since 2002 when the case from the other county was transfered to the county she lives in. Funny thing is no one could find this case until I was able to track it done this week. I put in another motion to consolidate again since I now have the actual case number, which was not known before since the counties do not use the same case numbers. I would like to be given credit for what I feel is an over payment of support to her. She had 2 orders for 20 percent of my net income vs. on order of 28 percent which is the state guideline for 2 children in Illinois
I am at wits end and very close to a nervous breakdown over all of this. Taking a lower paying job is not something I wanted to do but felt I needed to do. The way I felt after the court date for the case I first mentioned in this post, left me feeling belittled by everyone for stepping so low to take a job that paid me less then my previous income.
Does anyone have advice on how I should proceed?
