Hi everyone.
The parents of my girlfriend went to the cort and get a emergency order of protection against m becouse i am 22 and she is 17. We have always only date never sex. I come here from italy for see her and before they have take me out for dinner and tell me that i was wellcome in theyr house and now they have get a emergency order of protection. The 8 of ougust i have the hearing in the court,and i have get a lawyer.My question is how the judge can set a order of protection against me if we are only talking on the phone and daiting? i never have do anything of bad to her and she love me,and i love her. I have always thing that for get along order of protection you need to show that you are really in a dangeros situation or that someone has do really bad things to you.So, Do i have possibilityes at all that the judge will not give they the order of protection or i have already lose? Sorry for my english, and thanks for all

I already answered this the last time you asked.

Yes, the parents of an underage child can get a restraining order against a man that wants to date her.

They apparently find you a threat. Considering in your last post that you mentioned that you were still contacting her during the protective order, I would expect it to be continued... because the courts don't appreciate being ignored.

Wait to date her until she is 18. Right now, you are flirting with deportation.

Thanks,but i have not contact her,she try to call my home phone with a restrect id and she try to call my cell too,i never have send her email,i never have text her and i never have call her back,she always try to call me,and when she do she use the restrect id so i really can't figure out who is calling me. So thye can't find any record about me contacting her becouse i really have not.

In your previous post, you talked about how she wanted to stand by your side at trial. That means that the two of you have talked since the order.

And, it doesn't matter if she calls you... if her phone records show any conversations with you that last longer than it takes you to say "I can't talk to you. Please don't call again." you are in violation.

You are the adult here that has been served with a PO. You are supposed to stay away from the little girl... even if she contacts you.

We went to the court and the the court say that a order of protection was not good in this situation,becouse i have never do anything of bad to her. So they have just make a injuction orderthat is not inforce by the police,and they say that her parents need to take responsability of what her daughter do becouse she is a minor,so if she try to contact me is not my problem becouse i am not contacting her but she is contacting me,and they will never get a order of protection becouse i never have do anything of bad so they can't prove anything.

Good. Now that the order of protection is dropped, my suggestion to you is to find someone else closer to your own age. I realize that you said you love her, but if loving her is going to get you nothing but trouble, you need to move on. There are millions of women in this country, you don't need one that you can't have. Not to mention, not trying to be rude, but you immigrated to this country. Americans can be very leery of foreigners, and especially parents who think someone may be dating their daughter for citizenship. Don't get me wrong, I am not suggesting that is the case, I am just saying that may be what they are thinking. Tell her it is over becuase you can't deal with her parents, and move on.