Is it hard for a father to sign away his rights to a child he doesn't see or want? Also is child support amt set high when CP live in a high income area like alexandria va? one more question when figuring out CS is the fathers BAH include and also do they take out the fact he has alot of deductions coming out

Once again you can't just sign your rights off to your child. The only way that can be done is if there is a step parent adoption. Has paternity been established? Has a support order took into effect? If you can not see your child file for visitation.

VA CS does not care about deductions coming out of your check. Trust me on that one, my husband had to decrease his 401 in order to even have any money left on his check. VA takes the amount before any tax deductions, insurance, 401 any whatever else you have as an allotment. Any income in Military BAQ is consider in the child support...my husband pays 750.00 a month for one child (includes day care that the child does not really attend).
You think it's expensive to live in Alexandria?...try Prince William County, VA. It is only 15 mins if that from Alexandria but double in cost of living.

Is it hard for a father to sign away his rights to a child he doesn't see or want? Also is child support amt set high when CP live in a high income area like alexandria va? one more question when figuring out CS is the fathers BAH include and also do they take out the fact he has alot of deductions coming out
www.supportguidelines.com (http://www.supportguidelines.com/)

Here is a link to all of the states' cs guidelines. Virginia's is VERY clear in what is considered when determining gross income to derive a set cs amount. It is also very clearly spelled out what deductions will be allowed when setting the amount of CS. Your and the mother's income will both be used to determine the amount of CS. You cannot just sign your rights away. Nobody can force you to have anything to do with the child, but you will be ordered to pay child support.

if he didnt want a child, he shouldnt have had unprotected sex with the mother. he needs to seriously grow up, be a man, and a parent to his child, his son didnt ask to be brought into this world for god's sakes, the father and mother made it happen. guys like that make me want to take them and beat the crap outta them! :mad:

kelly- does it ever cross your mind to try to figure out how everyone always knows it's you?

kelly- does it ever cross your mind to try to figure out how everyone always knows it's you?

What mind? Perhap's one of her (Dead relatives that have come back to life), can give her a clue?

You can voluntarily sign away your parental rights to a child. People do it every day - mothers and fathers. I'd suggest not letting on that your reason for this is to get out of paying child support.

No you just can't sign away your rights to your child most states there must be a step parent adoption..... Or if your rights are terminated for other reasons, you just can't say see ya later.

The ONLY time a parent can voluntarily TPR is when both parents are in agreement, (in most states) if a step parent is willing to adopt, and if money is not owed to the state for repayment of financial aid. A parent cannot unilaterally TPR because gosh, child support is too expensive and gee, I never wanted the kid to begin with.

What is your point, I didn't say i was in the military or even my spouse.

Stick to one thread, Chris. Nobody is going to have any idea what you are talking about.