In article <f9ptkd679l.fsf@noether.uoregon.edu>, Doug Anderson
<ethelthelog@yahoo.com> wrote:
More seriously (assuming your post is serious) you do things that physically stimulate your partner, without physically stimulating yourself. They are still often mentally stimulating, so they're fun.

I know this wasn't directed at me, but I'd love to be able to do that
too -- but she won't let me.

Ted