In article <utsmpmju7m.fsf@noether.uoregon.edu>, Doug Anderson
<ethelthelog@yahoo.com> wrote:
But when anyone posts with advice relevant to that, you respond in a snippy way, which makes me think that instead you wish to get out of this marriage preserving as much money as you can.

I think she's rightfully scared silly -- cut her some slack. She
sounds like a very desparate woman, and one who has a right to be.

Ted

On Sun, 06 Jul 2003 04:27:35 GMT, Seeker <anon-30263@anon.twwells.com>
wrote:
In article <utsmpmju7m.fsf@noether.uoregon.edu>, Doug Anderson<ethelthelog@yahoo.com> wrote: But when anyone posts with advice relevant to that, you respond in a snippy way, which makes me think that instead you wish to get out of this marriage preserving as much money as you can.I think she's rightfully scared silly -- cut her some slack. Shesounds like a very desparate woman, and one who has a right to be.Ted

Yes...because of the 10% ! lol


Have a nice 4th weekend...

Gus

Follow Joan Rivers' example --- get pre-embalmed!

I tithe 10% of my income w/o my husbands input, but I do not force us
to tithe 10% of his income. Perhaps there is a solution there for her.

fairly_happy wrote: "Herr Taurus" <gusaufdenkinder@hotmail.com> wrote in message news:bkeggvco2rs6f1hkgej7nd5kuaqh5266rs@4ax.com... On Sun, 06 Jul 2003 04:27:35 GMT, Seeker <anon-30263@anon.twwells.com>wrote:In article <utsmpmju7m.fsf@noether.uoregon.edu>, Doug Anderson<ethelthelog@yahoo.com> wrote:>But when anyone posts with advice relevant to that, you respond in a>snippy way, which makes me think that instead you wish to get out of>this marriage preserving as much money as you can.I think she's rightfully scared silly -- cut her some slack. Shesounds like a very desparate woman, and one who has a right to be.TedYes...because of the 10% ! lol Nah, its because of the control part. If he unilaterally makes decisions that affect the whole family negatively (of which tithing is only one example), and she is supposed to just say "yes dear" and have no right to have a part in making that decision and just has to go along with whatever he decides to do next then that is a way bigger issue than the 10%.

On Sun, 06 Jul 2003 16:41:23 GMT, Virginia
<PrincipessinaMia@netscape.net> wrote:
I tithe 10% of my income w/o my husbands input, but I do not force usto tithe 10% of his income. Perhaps there is a solution there for her.

She doesn't work, Virginia...and she doesn't believe in titheing.


Hope you had a nice 4th weekend...

Gus

Follow Joan Rivers' example --- get pre-embalmed!