>Subject: Re: Marilyn Churley's Adoption BillFrom: "BaD *** Me" badassme@bellsouth.comDate: 11/26/2004
Her father is in prison......snipped.

So sorry that has happened to you, must be a horrible to live with.
Actually my daughter is ok with this decision.

Ah, my assumption was wrong (minor).
The bc does not ask for the biological father. My husband was the legalfather and since he had more concern for her well being than her own fatherhis name was on the bc. Legally this is correct.

Same with my documents. Only you have the answers should your child ever
contact you. I am so proud and grateful to my birthmom for telling me this
despite her fears.
I am the one who makes sure her family is updated about our history.

That is good of you and nice that her parents are open to your contact with
them to pass along the info. I am again making an assumption... that "she" is
a minor.... when I ask, do you know if they are documenting the info for her?

Kathy J

"Tm n Kat" <tmnkat@aol.com> wrote in message
news:20041127231531.06270.00000662@mb-m23.aol.com...Subject: Re: Marilyn Churley's Adoption BillFrom: "BaD *** Me" badassme@bellsouth.comDate: 11/26/2004Her father is in prison......snipped. So sorry that has happened to you, must be a horrible to live with.Actually my daughter is ok with this decision. Ah, my assumption was wrong (minor).The bc does not ask for the biological father. My husband was the legalfather and since he had more concern for her well being than her ownfatherhis name was on the bc. Legally this is correct. Same with my documents. Only you have the answers should your child ever contact you. I am so proud and grateful to my birthmom for telling me this despite her fears.

Whatever bless you (sorry, I'm an atheist). I still can't get info and my
bmom is the only one that can provide it. Maybe one day she will, but I'm
not keeping my fingers crossed.

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Robyn
Resident Witchypoo
#1557

>Subject: Re: Marilyn Churley's Adoption BillFrom: "Robibnikoff" witchypoo@broomstick.comDate: 11/27/2004
Whatever bless you (sorry, I'm an atheist). I still can't get info and mybmom is the only one that can provide it. Maybe one day she will, but I'mnot keeping my fingers crossed.---------RobynResident Witchypoo#1557

Dear Robyn, I will keep my fingers crossed for you. Kathy J

"Tm n Kat" <tmnkat@aol.com> wrote in message
news:20041128003440.06270.00000671@mb-m23.aol.com...Subject: Re: Marilyn Churley's Adoption BillFrom: "Robibnikoff" witchypoo@broomstick.comDate: 11/27/2004Whatever bless you (sorry, I'm an atheist). I still can't get info and mybmom is the only one that can provide it. Maybe one day she will, butI'mnot keeping my fingers crossed.
Dear Robyn, I will keep my fingers crossed for you. Kathy J

Thanks, sweetie :)

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Robyn
Resident Witchypoo
#1557

"Tm n Kat" <tmnkat@aol.com> wrote in message
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| >Subject: Re: Marilyn Churley's Adoption Bill
| >From: "BaD *** Me" badassme@bellsouth.com
| >Date: 11/26/2004
|
| >Her father is in prison......snipped.
|
| So sorry that has happened to you, must be a horrible to live with.
|
Well, it was but is in the past. I made a stupid mistake and dealt
with/deal with it.


| >Actually my daughter is ok with this decision.
|
| Ah, my assumption was wrong (minor).
|
| >The bc does not ask for the biological father. My husband was the legal
| >father and since he had more concern for her well being than her own
father
| >his name was on the bc. Legally this is correct.
|
| Same with my documents. Only you have the answers should your child ever
| contact you. I am so proud and grateful to my birthmom for telling me
this
| despite her fears.
|
She deserves to be told the truth. One reason I made sure her adoptive
parents would always be open with the fact that she is adopted. I think it
would be a nasty shock to find out at a much older age.


| >I am the one who makes sure her family is updated about our history.
| >
|
| That is good of you and nice that her parents are open to your contact
with
| them to pass along the info. I am again making an assumption... that
"she" is
| a minor.... when I ask, do you know if they are documenting the info for
her?
|
| Kathy J

Oh yes, im sorry. I thought I had mentioned that. She is a minor child.
Her parents are just wonderful. They have been great about me sending
updated photos of her sisters etc.. The document everything I send for her.
She also has a brother who is adopted and they both enjoy looking through
their birthmoms 'things' and comparing/sharing.
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BaD *** Me
**My opinions might have changed but not the fact that I am right!**

"Robibnikoff" <witchypoo@broomstick.com> wrote in message
news:30t31qF34esftU1@uni-berlin.de...
|
| "Tm n Kat" <tmnkat@aol.com> wrote in message
| news:20041127231531.06270.00000662@mb-m23.aol.com...
| > >Subject: Re: Marilyn Churley's Adoption Bill
| >>From: "BaD *** Me" badassme@bellsouth.com
| >>Date: 11/26/2004
| >
| >>Her father is in prison......snipped.
| >
| > So sorry that has happened to you, must be a horrible to live with.
| >
| >>Actually my daughter is ok with this decision.
| >
| > Ah, my assumption was wrong (minor).
| >
| >>The bc does not ask for the biological father. My husband was the legal
| >>father and since he had more concern for her well being than her own
| >>father
| >>his name was on the bc. Legally this is correct.
| >
| > Same with my documents. Only you have the answers should your child
ever
| > contact you. I am so proud and grateful to my birthmom for telling me
| > this
| > despite her fears.
|
| Whatever bless you (sorry, I'm an atheist). I still can't get info and my
| bmom is the only one that can provide it. Maybe one day she will, but
I'm
| not keeping my fingers crossed.
|
| ---------
| Robyn
| Resident Witchypoo
| #1557
|
That is sad that she wont give you that much. Its nosey of me but if I can
ask..why wont she share the information with you?
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BaD *** Me
**My opinions might have changed but not the fact that I am right!**