Okay, so my boyfriend filed the child custody papers pro se. The respondent then filed back with her response, there is a lot of disagreement still. Should my boyfriend file a counterpetition, or should he file for a hearing date? Also can anyone explain to me why they say it is difficult for a father to get joint custody? What kind of things does my boyfriend need to present a good case for joint custody?

Okay, so my boyfriend filed the child custody papers pro se. The respondent then filed back with her response, there is a lot of disagreement still. Should my boyfriend file a counterpetition, or should he file for a hearing date? Also can anyone explain to me why they say it is difficult for a father to get joint custody? What kind of things does my boyfriend need to present a good case for joint custody?
Because your BF is the petitioner he does not need to file any kind of counter-petition. However, if the mother has filed a counter-petition he should file and serve his answer to the counter-petition. Since the mother has filed her answer to the petition he may be able to set a hearing date. That depends on what county/circuit you are in. Some county's require mediation before setting a hearing date and some do not.

On your other threads I listed links for websites that have alot of info, but he may have to talk to the court clerk's office, or pro-se office (if available in your area) to find out if mediation is required first. If it is, they will tell him how to get a mediation date. If your county doesn't require mediation your BF can go to clerk and ask for hearing date. He will then need to fill out a notice of hearing, file the original and serve the mother with a copy.

It is not all that difficult for a father to get joint custody, as a matter of fact, the Fl laws encourage joint custody (absent a finding of danger to the child).

Since he is going pro-se he really needs to hire a court reporter for all hearings, that way he'll have a transcript available if any appeals or rehearings are needed. The cost is usually minimal, the one my husband used for his last hearing was only $50.00.

Thank you so so so much. This helps A LOT!