>Subject: Re: Fast Track Adoption: The Faster, Safer Way to Privately Adopt aBabyFrom: kjs668@aol.comeek (kj)Date: 4/11/04 9:59 PM Mountain Daylight TimeMessage-id: <20040411235954.13325.00000186@mb-m18.aol.com>
The point was whether the adopter closing the open adoption, and thiuscutting off all future ties with the child, was the cause for thatdepression. Rupa seems to think not.
Di
I would be inclined to believe the birthmother was having problems beforerelinquishing her child. Certainly, the situation post-relinquishmentexacerbated her situation, but it probably wasn't the cause.

Indeed. Chronic depression doesn't just "happen" IMO.


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>lilmtncbn@aol.comnospam (LilMtnCbn)Date: 4/12/2004 12:19 AM Eastern Daylight TimeMessage-id: <20040412001955.20897.00000151@mb-m21.aol.com>Subject: Re: Fast Track Adoption: The Faster, Safer Way to Privately Adopt aBabyFrom: kjs668@aol.comeek (kj)Date: 4/11/04 9:59 PM Mountain Daylight TimeMessage-id: <20040411235954.13325.00000186@mb-m18.aol.com>The point was whether the adopter closing the open adoption, and thiuscutting off all future ties with the child, was the cause for thatdepression. Rupa seems to think not.DiI would be inclined to believe the birthmother was having problems beforerelinquishing her child. Certainly, the situation post-relinquishmentexacerbated her situation, but it probably wasn't the cause.Indeed. Chronic depression doesn't just "happen" IMO.

Well, by saying that, you have automatically become rabidly pro-adoption!
(yeah, I don't get it either)
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kj